-THIS IS ABOUT MY CAMERA LIFE AND FOOLING AROUND;)
- Name: Lincoln
- Age: 23
- Sex: Male
- Love my car
- Love nuaing
- Love Biking
- Love Driving
- Love Movies
- Love Anime
- Love To be crazy
- Love MY AH SIA KIA
- Love LITTLE DOU DOU
- email:lyyw86@yahoo.com.sg
several weeks ago, my mum told me to test the fridge in the ware house, the fridge has been there for years, it was at the very rear end of the ware house and i ended up jacking several pallets out to get the fridge out to the front of the ware house for a power point. after that, the next instruction was to measure the dimensions of the fridge. Done. then several weeks later, i was told to clean out the stinking rotting working fridge. Oh crap... additional work, never mind, so i said how da hell to get rid of the smell, its really bad, so she talked about lemons etc. So i said, buy the lemons, the kind of cloth you wanna use and let me know the instructions. 1 week later, i woke up and i the 1st thing i was asked was, did you clean the fridge. so i said no. why? what you mean why? where's the lemons? din the maid give it to you? so i said no. she walked down, yelled at the maid for forgetting to pass me the lemons, ok fine, people do forget things, coming from someone who doesnt remember his own bday till promted, so i said, never mind i will clean it today. Mum turned around and fired me, why did you not follow up and ask the maid regarding the lemons. ok, that was it. the 1st few words i actually spoke in the morning was regarding this conversation, so am i suppose to be like donkey from shrek asking the maid daily since 1 week+ ago, " are the lemon here yet?" i replied that this is riduclous. she said it was my job to clean the fridge. so i left house with the lemons, and a pleasant surprize came, she called someone else to go clean the fridge, i told him, nvm , i will do it. and i just finished a long day at work driving up and down and just finished cleaning the fucking fridge. i scrubed with all the lemons i could, well, guess what, my hands have been bitten by the lemon and the fridge still stinks, but much cleaner, no more chicken blood/dust and not much yellow stains left, but there were several silicon marks that could not be removed. job done. Happy fucking birthday, this is what my birthday means, i was borned to be ordered around, to be cleaning fridges. happy birthday bloody bastard boy! and seriously, i would refer to my brother's blog dated on Monday, November 02, 2009 1.04 am. i agree with my brother to that particular person. abusing authority. _|_ and yeah, happy birthday mother fucker, i just wanna go home to slp and rot my brains out. _|_
brakes applied at |11/05/2009 11:40:00 PM|
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
having fun with Rfid! yup.... broken shipment.... bloody yellowskin dumb brains morons!
brakes applied at |11/03/2009 09:52:00 PM|
Sunday, October 25, 2009
my 2009 bday pressie frm my wife : reads lincoln has became a furniture in the room....
brakes applied at |10/25/2009 08:59:00 PM|
fighting monday blues.... got this on email (enjoy!):
Subject" Then the fight started..."
My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping channels. She asked, 'What's on TV?' I said, 'an inch of dust!!' And then the fight started.
My wife and I were sitting at a table at my high school reunion.
I kept staring at a drunken lady swigging her drink as she sat alone at a nearby table. My wife asked, 'Do you know her?' 'Yes,' I sighed, 'She's my old girlfriend. I understand she took to drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since.' 'My God!' says my wife, 'who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?' And then the fight started.
The waiter, for some reason, took my order first. "I'll have the strip steak, medium rare, please." He said, "Aren't you worried about the mad cow?" "Nah, she can order for herself." And then the fight started.
A woman is standing nude, looking in the bedroom mirror.
She is not happy with what she sees and says to her husband :
'I feel horrible; I look old, fat and ugly. I really need you to pay me a compliment.' The husband replies : 'Your eyesight is still damn perfect.' And then the fight started.
A man and a woman were asleep like two innocent babies.
Suddenly, at 3 o'clock in the morning, a loud noise came from outside.
The woman, bewildered, jumped up from the bed and yelled at the man
'Holy crap. That must be my husband!' So the man quickly got out of the bed.
Scared and naked, he then jumped out of the window. He smashed himself on the ground, ran through a thorn bush and rushed to his car as fast as he could go. A few minutes later, he returned and went up to the bedroom and screamed at the woman : 'Hey !! I AM your husband !' The woman yelled back : 'Yeah ? Then why were you running?' And then the fight started.
I asked my wife : "Where do you want to go for our anniversary?"
It warmed my heart to see her face melt in sweet appreciation. "Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!" she said. So I suggested, "How about the kitchen?" And that's when the fight started..
My wife and I are watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in bed. I turned to her and said : "Do you want to have sex?" "No," she answered. I then said, "Is that your final answer?" She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying "Yes." So I said, "Then I'd like to phone a friend." And that's when the fight started.
brakes applied at |10/25/2009 08:42:00 PM|
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio
"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your ! children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25.. No one is in charge of your happiness but y! ou. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years , will this matter?' 27. Always choose life. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29.. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time some time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 36. Growing old beats the alternative - dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 42. The best is yet to come. 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up an! d show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.
brakes applied at |10/22/2009 10:51:00 PM|
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
my morning surprize..... i woke, i found this outside my room.... and i became a furniture in my room :)
brakes applied at |10/13/2009 06:49:00 PM|
bought a pair of sony ericson jalou.... the 1st 2 in spore few days back... needed to repair my old phone... sweet new phone though.... only lacking the good cam function of my old phone....
brakes applied at |10/13/2009 06:43:00 PM|
Monday, October 5, 2009
wow.... really crappy n draggy assignments this term..... with that menacing subject destroying my brain cells..... argh!! anyway... finally caught fireball.... my total kind of show.... just more muay thai... n blood bath.... bloods pumping man... i want 2 150kg hunged up body bags ... just like the good old days of muay thai..... damn... i have like a 7 kg weight just right beside me... for the last 4 mths.... today wanted to use it, but them, my arms are all aching.... tired muscles, really damn unfit man.... gotta start doing something... for starters, my running shoes are on the way,.... stamina 1st.... then back to looking for a "gym"(my body bags)..... then can get a real good work out plus fun.... i dunno what i am typing as i am stoning away.... editing assignments suppose to be done today+ study for the exams... but i forgot my god damn bag again..... FARK!!!!! little dino baby is growing at a really quick rate.... clothes keep getting smaller n smaller.... bottles being changed for the 3rd time... got lots to do for dino baby b4 she grows up man..... shag shag shag... but!!! its all in da mind!!! wake up farker! up up up!get that blood pumping and start doing the things that needs to be done.... but well, i think the only big hindrance is my damn sch..... cant wait for it to be over and done with... i am blogging cuz...1) stonned, 2) enjoying the IPOD!!! god.... i remember last time... my mum and neighbours all went crazy cuz my music volume is at 75-80% of its capacity whenever i am at home, whether studying, or bathing or gaming, its only off when i am watching a movie or tv...... well... i lost all my songs...... used to be an online DJ for IRC.... change com, crash com, god know what happen.... and yah.... alienware.... sweet shit.... over heats till it becomes a tupperware... but hell.... its a sweet thing!!! ok, better stop blogging now cuz i don really know what the hell i am typing, eyes closing...... which remind me i havent had coffee, but still waiting for delivery....
44 years of economic and material success have spawned some very strange behaviors among Singaporeans. We spent so much to buy a house or flat, furnished it up like a palace, but spent our time outside, most of the time at work. And the maids are the ones enjoying the million dollar or multi million dollar assets.
Then we paid so much, the highest in the world, for a car only to park at home. Too expensive to drive, too many ERPs and car park charges to pay. And we are encouraged to park the car at home and take public transport, cheaper and more convenient.
And when Singaporeans travelled, instead of seeing the places, they went shopping. The best part is that they would head for the cheapest bargains, buying stuff that they could get in Chinatown or pasar malam, at even cheaper prices. And they are happy that they got a bargain.
And while the heartlanders are busy trying to make a life here, being told to bust off if they are not happy, which they could not, the rich and presumably very happy and contented citizens are buying up properties overseas just in case they need to make that escape from paradise.
While many Singaporeans are thinking of jumping ship, or preparing to jump ship, hoards of new immigrants are rushing in to take their place in this paradise.
And to top it all up, they keep complaining about the govt and all the policies that they found unpalatable, come every election, they will vote and return the govt to power.
Strange Singaporean behaviours
brakes applied at |10/02/2009 01:23:00 AM|
Thursday, October 1, 2009
damn, y did u come back man.... u shld have toured to the quake area and get squashed! but its a real pitty so many innocent lives were taken there.... heart felt condolences.
brakes applied at |10/01/2009 08:37:00 PM|
anger is so much... i am like a bottle of coke with mentos inside, but work has taken my mind off all the things.
brakes applied at |10/01/2009 07:15:00 PM|
Sunday, September 6, 2009
People say rain washes pain away,... washes sins etc... but then again, its the wind, containing pretty much the same particles as rain, it brings along some kinda happiness, i remembered when there was a time where my window was spoiled, and for that few months, its pretty irritating to drive with everything getting on my nerves. never understood its the wind i was looking for, not really the thrill and excitement at times, but just wind. i use to cycle alot to reduce stress, i felt free when cycling/jumping off things.... but it actually all voiced down to wind.... i felt it. just yesterday. just yesterday i realise. i was not wanting to get all sweaty and wet, but then again, screw it, just ride, havent done it in a long time, i rode and i felt the wind... yes, that relaxing wind with the content of rain.... that's what i was looking for all the while without even realising that it was just simply wind. i remembered i used to sit on the stairs edge with a 5 cm ledge where i placed my big ass there and hang there bcuz that place has one of the best winds i have felt in singapore... yes my secret hideout... haha from jumping, to driving, to biking, jet skiing, running... everything seems to be about the wind. i have never once realized that.... never once... blur me, but somehow , from my really messed up tiny lincoln in my head screaming and tearing everything apart, it suddenly realized that, Hey! its just wind i am looking for, the moist cold wind... that was all.
brakes applied at |9/06/2009 08:26:00 PM|
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
got this from a email... enjoy the laff!
MEN ARE JUST HAPPIER PEOPLE
NICKNAMES
If Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kate and Sarah.
If Mike, Dave and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla and Four-eyes.
EATING OUT
When the bill arrives, Mike, Dave and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32..50. None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back.
When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.
MONEY
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need but it's on sale.
BATHROOMS
A man has six items in his bathroom: toothbrush and toothpaste, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel .
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify more than 20 of these items.
ARGUMENTS
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
FUTURE
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
SUCCESS
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
MARRIAGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, but she does.
DRESSING UP
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the trash, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.
NATURAL
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
OFFSPRING
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.
A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.
brakes applied at |9/02/2009 06:18:00 PM|
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
with da A350 gone..... a 2nd and new A350 came... thanks to my wifey!!!!! yay!!!! so i got another a 350!!!!!
brakes applied at |8/25/2009 08:08:00 AM|
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
ok, here's my milk junkie! Princess Raine ;)
brakes applied at |7/21/2009 12:00:00 AM|
Monday, July 20, 2009
Hey hey Mr Blog & viewers, havent posted in a while, i do wanna upload my new born baby's photos, but, i cant, because all are so soooooooo cute!!!!!i cant decide which one.... anyone wanna look, i got albums already.... Cheers! glad to be back to blogging... more too come soon, shouldnt stay away from blog too long as viewers may want the latest updates at all time! :)
brakes applied at |7/20/2009 10:11:00 PM|
got this from an email, pretty good advice, but some aint easy to follow at all.... 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will.. Stay in touch. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it... 9. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?' 27. Always choose life. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 42. The best is yet to come. 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
brakes applied at |7/20/2009 10:08:00 PM|
Thursday, July 2, 2009
saw this black bag that i liked.... i think i gone gay..... lol
pretty nice bag, but not worth its price at all....
i think i rather spend on da bow.....
brakes applied at |7/02/2009 06:09:00 PM|
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Maserati GranTurismo S (A)
Droooooolsssssss
brakes applied at |6/23/2009 10:00:00 PM|
Saturday, June 20, 2009
i cant believe it, one of my bestie ( best friend, sorry i have gone bimbo from watching i love u man) actually lie to me! oooo it hurt so badly man... i couldnt believe my eyes... straight face, and went on with da 1st lie... friends grow up together, get into shit together, help each other out, then slowly get married, get kids, the spend less time together, yeah, its understandable... but smack in a face one nice lie... sweet, but no biggy(still in bimbo voice), life's alway's a bitch man. well, money buys people man... money buys friends, good acting good looking friends....
brakes applied at |6/20/2009 01:00:00 PM|
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
sweet.....
M17x - 17-inch
brakes applied at |6/16/2009 10:44:00 PM|
Friday, June 12, 2009
Almost every week i get reprimanded about having a lousy memory. Here's the thing, i have a lousy memory cuz i don't lie, never bothered, never cared.
PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!
People who have good memories lie alot... They practice memorizing their lies 24/7, that is why they have such good memory. Perfect liars have good memories......
brakes applied at |6/12/2009 08:30:00 AM|
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
another joke from Aha...
Describe professions
What does your profession say about you?
1. MARKETING - You are ambitious yet stupid. You chose a marketing degree to avoid having to study in college, concentrating instead on drinking and socializing which is pretty much what your job responsibilities are now. Least compatible with Sales.
2. SALES - Laziest of all signs, often referred to as "marketing without a degree." You are also self-centered and paranoid. Unless someone calls you and begs you to take their money, you like to avoid contact with customers so you can "concentrate on the big picture." You seek admiration for your golf game throughout your life.
3. TECHNOLOGY - Unable to control anything in your personal life, you are instead content to completely control everything that happens at your workplace. Often even YOU don't understand what you are saying but who the hell can tell. It is written that Geeks shall inherit the Earth.
4. ENGINEERING - One of only two signs that actually studied in school. It is said that ninety percent of all Personal Ads are placed by engineers. You can be happy with yourself; your office is full of all the latest "ergo dynamic" gadgets. However, we all know what is really causing your "carpal tunnel syndrome."
5. ACCOUNTING - The only other sign that studied in school. You are mostly immune from office politics. You are the most feared person in the organization; combined with your extreme organizational traits, the majority of rumors concerning you say that you are completely insane.
6. HUMAN RESOURCES - Ironically, given your access to confidential information, you tend to be the biggest gossip within the organization. Possibly the only other person that does less work than marketing, you are unable to return any calls today because you have to get a haircut, have lunch AND then mail a letter.
7. MANAGEMENT/MIDDLE MANAGEMENT - Catty, cut-throat, yet completely spineless, you are destined to remain at your current job for the rest of your life. Unable to make a single decision you tend to measure your worth by the number of meetings you can schedule for yourself. Best suited to marry other "Middle Managers" as everyone in you social circle is a "Middle Manager."
8. SENIOR MANAGEMENT - (See above - Same sign, different title)
9. CUSTOMER SERVICE - Bright, cheery, positive, you are a fifty-cent cab ride from taking your own life. As children very few of you asked your parents for a little cubicle for your room and a headset so you could pretend to play "Customer Service." Continually passed over for promotions, your best bet is to sleep with your manager.
10. CONSULTANT - Lacking any specific knowledge, you use acronyms to avoid revealing your utter lack of experience. You have convinced yourself that your "skills" are in demand and that you could get a higher paying job with any other organization in a heartbeat. You will spend an eternity contemplating these career opportunities without ever taking direct action.
11. RECRUITER, "HEADHUNTER" - As a "person" that profits from the success of others, you are disdained by most people who actually work for a living. Paid on commission and susceptible to alcoholism, your ulcers and frequent heart attacks correspond directly with fluctuations in the stock market.
12. PARTNER, PRESIDENT, CEO - You are brilliant or lucky. Your inability to figure out complex systems such as the fax machine suggest the latter.
13. GOVERNMENT WORKER - Paid to take days off. Government workers are genius inventors, like the invention of new Holidays. They usually suffer from deep depression or anxiety and usually commit serious crimes while on the job... Thus the term "GO POSTAL"
brakes applied at |6/09/2009 12:11:00 AM|
Thursday, June 4, 2009
bloger has some probs.... aint looking like what its used to... anyway, another crap sponsored by Aha!
Evaluation comments
Dictionary of Evaluation Comments
Some of you might like to know what the supervisor is really saying in all those glowing employee work performance evaluations s/he keeps cranking out.
AVERAGE: Not too bright.
EXCEPTIONALLY WELL QUALIFIED: Has committed no major blunders to date.
ACTIVE SOCIALLY: Drinks heavily.
ZEALOUS ATTITUDE: Opinionated.
CHARACTER ABOVE REPROACH: Still one step ahead of the law.
UNLIMITED POTENTIAL: Will stick with us until retirement.
QUICK THINKING: Offers plausible excuses for errors.
TAKES PRIDE IN WORK: Conceited.
TAKES ADVANTAGE OF EVERY OPPERTUNITY TO PROGRESS: Buys drinks for superiors.
INDIFFERENT TO INSTRUCTION: Knows more than superiors.
STERN DISCIPLINARIAN: A real jerk.
TACTFUL IN DEALING WITH SUPERIORS: Knows when to keep mouth shut.
APPROACHES DIFFICULT PROBLEMS WITH LOGIC: Finds someone else to do the job.
A KEEN ANALYST: Thoroughly confused.
NOT A DESK PERSON: Did not go to college.
EXPRESSES SELF WELL: Can string two sentences together.
SPENDS EXTRA HOURS ON THE JOB: Miserable home life.
CONSCIENTIOUS AND CAREFUL: Scared.
METICULOUS IN ATTENTION TO DETAIL: A nitpicker.
DEMONSTRATES QUALITIES OF LEADERSHIP: Has a loud voice.
JUDGEMENT IS USUALLY SOUND: Lucky.
MAINTAINS PROFESSIONAL ATTITUDE: A snob.
KEEN SENSE OF HUMOR: Knows lots of dirty jokes.
STRONG ADHERENCE TO PRINCIPLES: Stubborn.
GETS ALONG EXTREMELY WELL WITH SUPERIORS AND SUBORDINATES ALIKE: A coward.
SLIGHTLY BELOW AVERAGE: Stupid.
OF GREAT VALUE TO THE ORGANIZATION: Turns in work on time.
IS UNUSUALLY LOYAL: Wanted by no-one else.
ALERT TO COMPANY DEVELOPMENTS: An office gossip.
REQUIRES WORK-VALUE ATTITUDINAL READJUSTMENT: Lazy and hard-headed.
HARD WORKER: Usually does it the hard way.
ENJOYS JOB: Needs more to do.
HAPPY: Paid too much.
WELL ORGANIZED: Does too much busywork.
COMPETENT: Is still able to get work done if supervisor helps.
CONSULTS WITH SUPERVISOR OFTEN: Annoying.
WILL GO FAR: Relative of management.
SHOULD GO FAR: Please.
USES TIME EFFECTIVELY: Clock watcher.
VERY CREATIVE: Finds 22 reasons to do anything except original work.
USES RESOURSES WELL: Delegates everything.
DESERVES PROMOTION: Create new title to make h/h feel appreciated.
brakes applied at |6/04/2009 01:45:00 AM|
The guide to wife translations
The wife says: You want The wife means: You want
The wife says: We need The wife means: I want
The wife says: It's your decision The wife means: The correct decision should be obvious
The wife says: Do what you want The wife means: You'll pay for this later
The wife says: We need to talk The wife means: I need to complain
The wife says: Sure... go ahead The wife means: I don't want you to
The wife says: I'n not upset The wife means: Of course I'm upset you moron
The wife says: You're ... so manly The wife means: You need a shave and sweat a lot
The wife says: Be romantic, turn out the lights The wife means: I have flabby thighs.
The wife says: This kitchen is so inconvenient The wife means: I want a new house.
The wife says: I want new curtains. The wife means: Also carpeting, furniture, and wallpaper!
The wife says: I need wedding shoes. The wife means: The other forty pairs are the wrong shade of white.
The wife says: Hang the picture there The wife means: No, I mean hang it there!
The wife says: I heard a noise The wife means: I noticed you were almost asleep.
The wife says: Do you love me? The wife means: I'm going to ask for something expensive.
The wife says: How much do you love me? The wife means: I did something today you're not going to like.
The wife says: I'll be ready in a minute. The wife means: Kick off your shoes and take an hour nap.
The wife says: Am I fat? The wife means: Tell me I'm beautiful.
The wife says: You have to learn to communicate. The wife means: Just agree with me.
The wife says: Are you listening to me? The wife means: [Too late, your doomed.]
The wife says: Yes The wife means: No
The wife says: No The wife means: No
The wife says: Maybe The wife means: No
The wife says: I'm sorry The wife means: You'll be sorry
The wife says: Do you like this recipe? The wife means: You better get used to it
The wife says: All we're going to buy is a soap dish The wife means: I'm coming back with enough to fill this place.
The wife says: Was that the baby? The wife means: Get out of bed and walk him
The wife says: I'm not yelling! The wife means: Yes I am! I think this is important!
In answer to the question "What's wrong?"
The wife says: The same old thing. The wife means: Nothing.
The wife says: Nothing. The wife means: Everything.
The wife says: Nothing, really. The wife means: It's just that you're an idiot.
The wife says: I don't want to talk about it. The wife means: I'm still building up steam.
Aha jokes!
brakes applied at |6/04/2009 01:01:00 AM|
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
going childish-> upz! to diva! ain't too young to be a father!~
http://www.divaasia.com/article/3820
brakes applied at |6/03/2009 08:55:00 PM|
Found this online, my next hunt
RIDER’S LODGE If you have never gone horseback riding, you might want to try it here. Tucked away in Bukit Timah is Rider’s Lodge where there are colonial-style rooms, a spa, and golf course. Get a taste of countryside living here.
Where: Rider’s Lodge, 108, Turf Club Road
Cost: Room rates range from $120++ to $130++
Call: 6465-4828
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brakes applied at |6/03/2009 08:01:00 PM|
Friday, May 29, 2009
The Beer Prayer
Our lager, Which art in barrels, Hollowed be thy drink. I will be drunk, At home as in the travern. Give us this day our foamy head, And forgive us our spillages, As we forgive those who spill against us. And lead us not into incarceration, But deliver us from hangerovers. For thine is the beer. he bitter and The lager Forever and ever, Barmen.
brakes applied at |5/29/2009 02:21:00 AM|
Reasons to allow drinking at work
The below are valid reasons as to why drinking should be allowed at work. If you use them wisely, you may even be able to convince your boss into allowing alcohol.
1. It's an incentive to show up.
2. It reduces stress.
3. It leads to more honest communications.
4. It reduces complaints about low pay.
5. It cuts down on time off because you can work with a hangover.
6. Employees tell management what they think, not what management wants to hear.
7. It helps save on heating costs in the winter.
8. It encourages carpooling.
9. Increases job satisfaction because if you have a bad job you don't care.
10. It eliminates vacations because people would rather come to work.
11. It makes fellow employees look better.
12. It makes the cafeteria food taste better.
13. Bosses are more likely to hand out raises when they are wasted.
14. Salary negotiations are a lot more profitable.
15. If something does something stupid on the job, it will be quickly forgotten.
I have a magical dancing duck
A circus owner walked into a bar to see everyone crowded about a table watching a little show. On the table was an upside down pot and a duck tap dancing on it. The circus owner was so impressed that he offered to buy the duck from its owner. After some wheeling and dealing, they settled for $10,000 for the duck and the pot.
Three days later the circus owner runs back to the bar in anger, "Your duck is a ripoff! I put him on the pot before a whole audience, and he didn't dance a single step!"
"So?" asked the ducks former owner, "did you remember to light the candle under the pot?"
What causes people to have arthritis?
A man who smelled like a distillery flopped on a subway seat next to a priest. The man's tie was stained, his face was plastered with red lipstick, and a half empty bottle of gin was sticking out of his torn coat pocket. He opened his newspaper and began reading. After a few minutes, the disheveled guy turned to the priest and asked, "Say, father, what causes arthritis?"
"Mister, it's caused by loose living, being with cheap, wicked women, too much alcohol and a contempt for your fellow man."
"Well I'll be." the drunk muttered, returning to his paper.
The priest, thinking about what he had said, nudged the man and apologized. "I'm very sorry. I didn't mean to come on so strong. How long did you have arthritis?"
"I don't have it father. I was just reading here that the Pope does."
They are stopped by the police
John and Jessica were on their way home from the bar one night and John got pulled over by the police. The officer told John that he was stopped because his tail light was burned out. John said, "I'm very sorry officer, I didn't realize it was out, I'll get it fixed right away."
Just then Jessica said, "I knew this would happen when I told you two days ago to get that light fixed."
So the officer asked for John's license and after looking at it said, "Sir your license has expired."
And again John apologized and mentioned that he didn't realize that it had expired and would take care of it first thing in the morning.
Jessica said, "I told you a week ago that the state sent you a letter telling you that your license had expired."
Well by this time, John is a bit upset with his wife contradicting him in front of the officer, and he said in a rather loud voice, "Jessica, shut your mouth!" pr0perty0fgl0wp0rt
The officer then leaned over toward Jessica and asked. "Does your husband always talk to you like that?"
Jessica replied, "only when he's drunk."
Female hormones in beer
Yesterday, scientists in the United States revealed that beer contains small traces of female hormones.
To prove their theory, they fed one hundred men twelve pints of beer and observed that 100% of them started talking nonsense and couldn't drive.
A very depressed man
There's a man sitting at a bar just looking at his drink. He stays like that for half an hour. Then, a big trouble-making truck driver steps next to him, takes the drink from the guy, and just drinks it all down.
The poor man starts crying. The truck driver says, "Come on man, I was just joking. Here, I'll buy you another drink. I just can't stand seeing a man crying."
"No, it's not that. This day is the worst of my life. First, I fall asleep, and I'm late to my office. My boss, in an outrage, fires me. When I leave the building to my car, I found out it was stolen. The police say they can do nothing. I get a cab to return home and when I leave it, I remember I left my wallet and credit cards there. The cab driver just drives away. I go home and when I get there, I find my wife sleeping with the gardener. I leave home and come to this bar. And when I was thinking about putting an end to my life, you show up and drink my poison."
The wife is not speaking to me
One night, this guy come into a bar and asks the bartender for a drink. Then he asks for another. After a couple more drinks, the bartender gets worried.
"What's the matter?" the bartender asks.
"My wife and I got into a fight," explained the guy "and now she isn't talking to me for a whole 31 days."
The bartender thought about this for a while. "But, isn't it a good thing that she isn't talking to you?" asked the bartender.
"Yeah, except today is the last night."
Who gave you those black eyes?
A regular at Bob's Bar came in one evening sporting a matched pair of swollen black eyes that appeared extremely painful.
"Whoa, Sam!" said the bartender. "Who gave those beauties to you?"
"Nobody gave them to me," said Sam. "I had to fight like crazy for both of them."
Free drinks for everyone
One night, a drunk comes stumbling into a bar and says to the bartender: "Drinks for all on me including you, bartender." So the bartender follows the mans orders and says: "That will be $36.50 please." The drunk says he has no money so the bartender slaps him around and throws him out.
The next night the same drunk comes in again and orders a drink for everyone in the bar including the bartender. Again the bartender follows instructions and again the drunk says he has no money. So the bartender slaps him around and throws him out.
On the third night he comes in, the drunk orders drinks for all except the bartender. "What, no drink for me?" replies the bartender. "Oh, no. You get violent when you drink."
I'll trust you that you paid
A man walks into a bar and has a couple of beers. Once he is donem the bartender tells him he owes $9.00.
"But I paid, don't you remember?" says the customer.
"Okay," says the bartender, "If you said you paid, you did."
The man then goes outside and tells the first person he sees that the bartender can't keep track of whether his customers have paid.
The second man then rushes in, orders a beer and later pulls the same stunt.
The barkeep replies, "If you say you paid, I'll take your word for it."
Soon the customer goes into the street, sees an old friend, and tells him how to get free drinks.
The man hurries into the bar and begins to drink high-balls when, suddenly, the bartender leans over sand says, "You know, a funny thing happened in here tonight. Two men were drinking beer, neither paid and both claimed that they did. The next guy who tries that is going to get punched right in the nose."
"Don't bother me with your troubles," the final patron responds. "Just give me my change and I'll be on my way."
brakes applied at |5/29/2009 01:55:00 AM|
just for laughs! (copied frm forum) A little boy goes to his dad and asks, "What is politics?"
Dad says, "Well son, let me try to explain it this way: I'm the breadwinner of the family, so let's call me capitalism. Your Mom, she's the administrator of the money, so we'll call her the Government. We're here to take care of your needs, so we'll call you the people. The nanny, we'll consider her the Working Class. And your baby brother, we'll call him the Future. Now, think about that and see if that makes sense,"
So the little boy goes off to bed thinking about what dad had said.
Later that night, he hears his baby brother crying, so he gets up to check on him.
He finds that the baby has severely soiled his diaper. So the little boy goes to his parents' room and finds his mother sound asleep. Not wanting to wake her, he goes to the nanny's room.
Finding the door locked, he peeks in the keyhole and sees his father in bed with the nanny. He gives up and goes back to bed.
The next morning, the little boy says to his father, "Dad, I think I Understand the concept of politics now."
The father says, "Good son, tell me in your own words what you think politics is all about."
The little boy replies, "Well, while Capitalism is screwing the Working Class, the Government is sound asleep, the People are being ignored and the Future is in deep shit."
A Woman was out golfing one day when she hit the ball into the woods. She went into the woods to look for it and found a frog in a trap. The frog said to her, “If you release me from this trap, I will grant you three wishes.”
The woman freed the frog, and the frog said, “Thank you, but I failed to mention that there was a condition to your wishes. Whatever you wish for, your husband will get times ten!”
The woman said, “That’s okay.” For her first wish, she wanted to be the most beautiful woman in the world. The frog warned her, “You do realize that this wish will also make your husband the most handsome man in the world, an Adonis to whom women will flock.” The woman replied, “That’s okay, because I will be the most beautiful Woman and he will have eyes only for me.”
So, KAZAM-she’s the most beautiful Woman in the world!
For her second wish, she wanted to be the richest woman in the world. The frog said, “That will make your husband the richest man in the world. And he will be ten times richer than you.” The woman said, “That’s okay, because what’s mine is his and what’s his is mine.”
So, KAZAM-she’s the richest woman in the world!
The frog then inquired about her third wish, and she answered, “I’d like a mild heart attack.”
Moral of the story: Women are clever. Don’t mess with them.
Little Janice was not the best student in Sunday school. Usually she slept through class. One day the teacher called on her while she was napping, “Tell me Janice, who created the universe?” When Janice didn’t stir, little Johnny, a boy seated in the chair behind her, took a pin and jabbed her in the rear.
“God Almighty!” shouted Janice and the teacher said, “Very good” and Janice fell back asleep.
A while later the teacher asked Janice, “Who is our Lord and Saviour.” But, Janice didn’t even stir from her slumber. Once again, Johnny came to the rescue and stuck her again.
“Jesus Christ!” shouted Janice and the teacher said, “Very good,” and Janice fell back asleep.
Then the teacher asked Janice a third question. “What did Eve say to Adam after she had her twenty-third child?” and again, Johnny jabbed her with the pin.
This time Janice jumped up and shouted, “If you stick me with that thing one more time, I’ll break it in half and stick it up your ass!”
One day a hippie gets a ride on a public bus and sees a hot young nun. He sits down next to her and promptly asks if she would like to have sex, to which she immediately says no and walks off the bus. The bus driver leans over and says “Hey guy I know how to get that nun to have sex with you…”
Naturally the hippie asks, and the bus driver tells him that every night at midnight the nun goes to an old graveyard to pray for god to forgive her for her past, and that he should dress up like god and tell the nun she will be forgiven if she has sex with you.
The hippie gives his thanks and runs to the nearest costume shop.
Later that evening the hippie gets ready for his big night and drives down to the graveyard and sees the nun praying, on her knees. He says “Behold, I have heard your prayers and you shall be forgiven if you have sex with me!”
The nun agrees but asks if they can have anal sex in order to keep her virginity. The hippie agrees and once they are finished the hippie jumps back and pulls off his mask and says “Surpise, its me the Hippie!”
The nun jumps up and pulls off her mask and says “Surprise, its me the bus driver!”
Hung Chow calls into work and says, “Hey, I no come work today, I really sick. Got headache, stomach ache and legs hurt, I no come work.”
The boss says, “You know something, Hung Chow, I really need you today. When I feel like this, I go to my wife and tell her I want sex. That makes everything better and I go to work. You try that.”
Two hours later Hung Chow calls again. “I do what you say and I feel great. I be at work soon… You got nice house.”
A man comes to his doctor and tells him that his wife hasn’t had sex with him for 6 months. The doctor tells the man to bring his wife in so he can talk to her. So the wife comes into the doctors office and the doc asks her what’s wrong, and why doesn’t she want to have sex with her husband anymore.
The wife tells him, “For the past 6 months, every morning I take a cab to work. I don’t have any money so the cab driver asks me, ‘So are you going to pay today or what?’ so I take a ‘or what’. When I get to work I’m late so the boss asks me, ‘So are we going to write this down in the book or what?’ so I take a ‘or what’.
Back home again I take the cab and again I don’t have any money so the cab driver asks me again, ‘So are you going to pay this time or what?’ so again I take a ‘or what’. So you see doc when I get home I’m all tired out, and I don’t want it any more.”
The doctor thinks for a second and then turns to the wife and says, “So are we going to tell your husband or what?”
Little Johnny is walking down the hall when he hears a noise from his parents room. He knocks on the door and asks his mom what’s going on. “Playing cards,” she replies. “Who’s your partner?” asked little johnny. “Your father!”
Content with his answer, Little Johnny walks further down the hall towards his room when he hears the same noise coming from his sister’s room. Again, he knocks on the door and asked his sister what was she doing. “Playing cards.” “With who?” he asks. ”My boyfriend!” she says.
A short while later, Little Johnny’s father is walking down the hall and hears a noise coming from Little Johnny’s room. He knocks on the door and asks ”What are you doing?” “Playing cards!” replied Johnny. ”Who’s your partner?” asked his father…
Little Johnny answers promptly, “With a hand like this who needs a partner?”
Nabucco 7800-TCF-05207 oh.... sweet shit... never really liked watches... but this is one i would dearly like to have!!!!
brakes applied at |5/29/2009 01:14:00 AM|
ah... 1 of the wallets i wanted for a good long time, but never really bought it cuz its a waste of money, but what the hell.... am going to splurge on this after bogy has been replaced.... bogy is top urgency at the current moment...
brakes applied at |5/29/2009 12:41:00 AM|
Thursday, May 28, 2009
click to enlarge.... god... what are the kids learning now a days? found this off some funny website..... and... WOW! class 5b? primary school?
brakes applied at |5/28/2009 10:27:00 PM|
Monday, May 11, 2009
these bottles looks, hmmm otherwise.. it doesnt look like milk bottles... more like S** To**
mum to be resting at da clinic. NO BLANKS, NO BLANKS.... I AM LOADED WITH LIVE ROUNDS.... PROUD TO DECLARE... I AM NOT SHOOTING BLANKS!!! cant wait for my princess to be out!!
brakes applied at |5/11/2009 09:36:00 PM|
This is chris, at macdonalds going crazy. the conversation: Honda "EK, EG" are chassis numbers, claimed by chris. i casually said that it was a model number. Chrissy being a nutcase honda enthu went online with his mobile searching to prove me wrong. Found webbie from wikipedia and something. org. where people say it was a chassis number... ok... chassis number or not... wth? who cares! we just want time to pass so that breakfast comes faster!
brakes applied at |5/11/2009 09:26:00 PM|
OUCH... hope the driver is ok...
brakes applied at |5/11/2009 09:19:00 PM|
lol.... msn astrology....
Ideal Partners
: Dog, Horse, Pig
Lucky Numbers
: 1, 3, 5, 12, 15, 33, 35, 51 and 53.
Your Chinese Sign
: Tiger
Tiger people are born leaders. They are very confident, perhaps over-confident sometimes. Although they love adventures, and are addicted to excitement it is better not to challenge a Tiger's confidence. They like being obeyed and not the other way around. Tigers are sensitive and emotional. They are capable of great love, but they become too intense about it. They are also territorial and possessive, if you are a friend of a Tiger, he wants you to take his side against opposition and because the Tiger is so adorable, you can not even say no. As lovers, Tigers are passionate and romantic, but the real challenge for the Tiger is to grasp the true meaning of moderation. They are extremely short tempered, usually can not make up their minds, which can result in a poor decision making. This sign shows you would be excellent as a boss, explorer, race car driver, or matador
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Thursday, May 7, 2009
infertility is common now a days... well.... my wife just updated her blog and linked it to my blog. and as a man... i am so glad... I AM NOT SHOOTING BLANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok, finally less bz for the day, heavy loads of assignments has come.... real heavy loads.... well, thankfully, my wife had done up everything and took some pics of all the stuff we bought for our little princess thats arriving soon. soooo tired these few days....
brakes applied at |5/07/2009 05:15:00 PM|
Monday, May 4, 2009
http://www.titane.ca/concordia/dfar251/igod/main.html artifical not so intelligent !
brakes applied at |5/04/2009 10:17:00 PM|
mum went emo....me too!
Cheers!
And now, the end is near; And so I face the final curtain. My friend, Ill say it clear, Ill state my case, of which Im certain.
Ive lived a life thats full. Ive traveled each and evry highway; And more, much more than this, I did it my way.
Regrets, Ive had a few; But then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do And saw it through without exemption.
I planned each charted course; Each careful step along the byway, But more, much more than this, I did it my way.
Yes, there were times, Im sure you knew When I bit off more than I could chew. But through it all, when there was doubt, I ate it up and spit it out. I faced it all and I stood tall; And did it my way.
Ive loved, Ive laughed and cried. Ive had my fill; my share of losing. And now, as tears subside, I find it all so amusing.
To think I did all that; And may I say - not in a shy way, No, oh no not me, I did it my way.
For what is a man, what has he got? If not himself, then he has naught. To say the things he truly feels; And not the words of one who kneels. The record shows I took the blows - And did it my way!
brakes applied at |5/04/2009 09:57:00 PM|
Here's the story:.... not too long ago, on a Saturday late night, my wife and i went out for food, came back and heard some noises coming from a box in our room. she thought its a giant lizard causing the noise... i shifted the box.... the thing ram the box at me. ok, its not a lizard. the force was strong..... too strong.... so i got my bro up, and tape the 2 carrying holes of the box. after taping one side, my bro, half asleep without his specs was about to tape the other side when darth vader jumped out and dash out of the room into the study. so we quickly locked our room and ran into the study, got 2 badminton rackets and lock oursleves into the room with darth vader.... darth vader was skilled , study was cluttered like a store room, we couldnt find it. the force was not on our side. FOCUS! ok. back to where i was... we search for quite a while and gave up. we came out and locked the study door. after a while, i went in again and saw it in the toilet. so we ran in, lock the study, into the toilet trying to get darth vader. but couldnt find it. so we locked the toilet door and got out. the next day, i was feeding my hermits when i suddenly realise a dark force behind me, it was darth... shit! chased it, yelled for my other clown to come up. and we search and chase again. god damn it. so we got no where close again. we bought some glue pads. filled it with meat . Darth vader got caught at 4am the next morning.... but in the process of getting into the room, it fled, it managed to get out of the sticky trap. ok... one more nite of no sleep. Pissed. called 4 pest busters and all were close, located trap cages and went to jurong, 26 lokyang road to get it. 3 pcs, hung with peanut butter, peanut butter and cookie, and cuttle fish. it din work. chasing continues... ok, last nite was the last straw... went to self fix, bought every single can of glue on the shelf. spend half hour making a huge trap. the glue was massively stinking the whole 3 stories..... the 2 clowns were getting high and having head ache. so for 2 hours, we set the glue trap , lifted the beds and sofa all against the wall, stack everything, saw darth vader twice... ran after it like mad and after 2 hrs, we decided to call it a day. head and stomach were churning. so we left 3 trap cages and our DIY glue patch with a whole bunch of king oscar in the center. guess what!? windows were closed. no ventilation and the hall still had smell of the glue.... that was 6 cans of glue. went to slp.... the next morning, i wanted to call the pest busters, wife said go check on our pet darth vader... and holy shit! there was darth vader!!!! took it out, folded the box of glue and our darth vader, had it thrown in a black plastic to await the garbage truck.
brakes applied at |5/04/2009 07:04:00 PM|
folded and thrown into the black plastic waiting for garbage truck!! woooohooooo!!!
brakes applied at |5/04/2009 06:58:00 PM|
bro resetting the cages
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brakes applied at |5/04/2009 06:47:00 PM|
Dear chirs, wow, u actually name urself.... no wonder... ku niang.
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Sunday, May 3, 2009
The last 1 and a half week was rather tiring, mostly mentally, half physically. Really stressed out, half of the time i dont know why, but i keep thinking and thinking non stop. Had lesser sleep then usual, most of the time, disturbed sleep with nitemares and stupid dreams, sometimes i dunno if i am awake or sleeping. Some disturbing thoughts don seem to go away. its affecting my concentration. lethargy has gotten me that so much so that i don feel like doing anything, restless through the week, just wanna go out and watch a comedy and lighten up. Depression? i dunno. Well, i don really understand how i feel, so i guess no one does and could help. the daily accumulated tiredness is adding on and on and on everyday that i feel so worned out that i don even feel alive. The most Depressing thing is on my wife's actual bday, i couldnt get a cake. not to mention, the day was spent shopping for stuff and the night went to catching a rat that appeared in my room. i tried to sleep but cant, i wish i can sleep for like 24 hrs and get back all my energy and back to my regular life, but i cant seem to fall asleep. Disturbing thoughts came in over and over again. havent been to blog for a long time, surprize that something happen in march 26 which i totally did not realise. so long ago, found out so recently. shocker. the thoughts are making me really depress man.
brakes applied at |5/03/2009 10:04:00 PM|
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
My bro's helmet light litted up the whole toilet... wow. got pissed that the toilet light blew out, so i called the contractor to fix my whole room, totally irrelevant....
brakes applied at |4/28/2009 08:27:00 AM|
Went to BKS amk to do my wife's car, so headed out to eat, found a bus stop, waited.... waited... figured that the bus loops to somewhere else instead of the interchange.... ended up in a cabby.. lol
brakes applied at |4/28/2009 08:22:00 AM|
Monday, April 27, 2009
my cute wife shopping in Daiso!
brakes applied at |4/27/2009 01:33:00 AM|
oh my god.... saw this today...i phone mini... wow.....
brakes applied at |4/27/2009 01:07:00 AM|
my bro shopping at ikea for his newly built cozy corner
brakes applied at |4/27/2009 12:57:00 AM|
my hammy became a round ball.... so fat...
brakes applied at |4/27/2009 12:54:00 AM|
Monday, April 6, 2009
Dear god, help is greatly needed again and will be appreciated. Why is it always the case of me being a punching bag? today, i was having a 38 degree fever and went to work. after wrk, i got home, slept till like 8.30pm, i woke to hear my mum and brother bickering about god knows what, as timely as it seems, my dad came home, according to my bro, it was almost ending when dad came home and mum added fuel to the already pissed dad scolding my bro. So later, all of us went to the doctor, dad asked abt pimple problem for my bro, i called home and mum picked up saying dad was asleep. so we came home with macdonalds, and walla, dad was awake. mum was crapping to me over the phone about how on saturday nite, at my great grandma's bday, my grandma said something to make my dad pissed and how all of us did not notice his facial expression where he was hurting cuz of some medical issues...so i went about trying to reconfirm it, no one saw any facial expression that shows one is hurting due to some medical issues. and i was blamed. again. well, what the fuck? i called back only to tell my father what the doctor said about my brother's pimple problem and there went my mum. she also added that we did not care about my father, so i say, why dont u stop arguing and keep quiet when dad is back since u talk about his medical condition? my mum then said that why should she giv in to my bro, he's getting worse. what, the, fuck... i did not say anything about giving in, so dont even start to accuse me... i shut the phone cuz she said that she dont want to convey the msg to dad. i msg her while on the way back saying that i never said to give in, but carry on the arguement when dad's gone.... i was replied with " ya me and my big mouth! disappointed with what is going on but 4 me, life goes on till i return home. he must learn to be smart n not b influence by bad hats!" ..... there is really no relavance.... so i replied.... "dear lord, pls help me to control my emotions andeverytime i am angry or disappointed, i will be able to take a deep breath, count to 10 and then evaluate is it worth blowing up or sayiung anything. will it change the other party's mindset if not what methods can i imply? amen" ..... back to where i was,we came home from doctors with macs, then while i was eating papaya, dad came down, i told him about what the doc said about the pimple issue my bro had.... then he ask what doc said about me, i said doc say its seasonal, i cant do anything about it, was given 2 days mc... dad told me to take a months leave , then went on to throw his temper on my bro about the lap top... after so many hours still angry.... ouch... well.... thats life.... depressing,things which cannot be control also becomes ur fault.... so how about me? where and when can i throw my temper? am i not allowed to have one? fuck this world.... the 2nd coming of jesus better be quick.........
brakes applied at |4/06/2009 09:11:00 AM|
Sunday, April 5, 2009
ah... running a damn fever, headache and sore throat.... well, someone who was from a chinese speaking background called de office and try to speak in "perfect slangged arrogant english", and these are the type of people i hate, actors, why cant u just be yourself? why engage in all the mama drama? Fakers, actors.... haiz... Anyway, the room was suppose to be complete, but then again, every few days new things are added so i dunno which pictures should i upload, besides, havent had the time to transfer the pics to my com yet. Well, had japanese food yesterday, big portions... pretty filling, somehow, i miss japan, the food there is fantastic, cold winter, a mug of beer and sushi, or a hot bowl of miso ramen... think everyone has a story to tell when they go to japan isnt it.... wonderful place, many memories, especially food....
brakes applied at |4/05/2009 06:53:00 PM|
Sunday, March 22, 2009
this is nuts.... Merc in white gold....
brakes applied at |3/22/2009 07:48:00 PM|
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
on to the earlier post, now this is one car, many dream, many have, but only 1 person who understands and appreciate.
brakes applied at |3/18/2009 12:07:00 AM|
bea u tiful.....the perfect car, a dream for millions, a possibility for many, but only a few appreciate it.
brakes applied at |3/18/2009 12:02:00 AM|
Sunday, March 15, 2009
wow...
brakes applied at |3/15/2009 06:57:00 PM|
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
havent got the song yet, the sound of this song just rings in ur head.... nice tune, but din really get the lyrics but hell... its my latest fav song after apologise-one republic.... although i don have the song yet... listened to it a few times but never really got the lyrics... well. after reading the lyrics, i think i like it more..... well akon, life's fair for u, wad ever misery u had before, mostly all gone, with a good life ahead.... but there are plenty others who have not made their mark in the financial world yet. Cheers to the heart touching song :P
Artist / Band : Akon
Song Lyrics Title : Freedom Available on Album : Freedom Released : - Music Genre : R&B
(Song Data Information from : Wikipedia)
Everything I have, everything I own All my mistakes man you already know I wanna be free, I wanna be free
From Senegal West Africa To St. Louis, Missouri Thanks to Katherine Dunham For giving my pops his glory He came down with his drum And a dream to change the world In a free upliftin world And thats all he ever want Mom came a little after Gave birth to my brother then all of the pressure Made em’ fight one another See, the pain would never last Did the best with what they had He knew the world was out for grabs And he searched to find his
Freedom, Freedom, Freedom Oh Freedom Everything I have, everything I own All my mistakes man, you already know I wanna be free (free), I wanna be free So I search to find my (find my) Freedom, Freedom, (Ohh yeaaa) Freedom, Freedom Everything I have, everything I own All my mistakes girl, you already know I wanna be free (free), I wanna be free (free) yeah Akon Lyrics on www.lyrics-celebrities.anekatips.com
As a kid I never knew I’d have to hustle just to make it through So I found myself skipping school Cause’ the girls don’t think I’m cool And because of that I didn’t care Wether or not I went to jail I just wanna be treated fair Cause’ that’s all I ever knew
Tellin’ me I need to slow down Cause’ everybody in the whole town Cause’ they know how I get down Far enough from another town Can you believe we still around? After so many hit the ground And we ain’t gon stop now Until we get that ..
Freedom (Ooooh) Freedom,(oOOoh) Freedom, (Ooooh) Freedom Everything I have (have) everything I own (own) All my mistakes man you already know yeahh I wanna be free (free) I wanna be free (free)
Won’t stop til’ I find my .. Freedom (My Freedom!!) Freedom (My Freedom!!), Freedom Ouuuh Freedom Everything I have (have) everything I own (own) All my mistakes girl you already know yeaaah I wanna be free (free), I wanna be free (free)
If you wanna be free, and the land is drug free Put your hands up (hey) put your hands up (hey) If you wanna be free, from all your misery put your hands up (hey) put your hands up (hey) If you wanna be free, with plenty money (hey) put your hands up, put your hands up If you wanna be free, just praise to your …. put your hands (hey) up, put your hands up (hey)
Freedom (Ooooh) Freedom, (Freedom) Freedom, (Ooooh) Freedom Everything I have, everything I own All my mistakes girl you already know I wanna be free (wanna be free), I wanna be free (wanna be free yea)
Note : The song is about Akon’s Biography Akon’s musical journey began when he was six; being thought to play drums by his father. Dance legend, Katherine Dunham, brought Akon’s father, Mor Thiam, to the U.S. in the 1960’s, He was a renowned jazz percussionist, in which Akon credited to helping him to mastering the art of drum playing. With this background, he was able to make the transition to the type of music he does. “Hip-hop is drum rhythms. I was attracted to that kind of music” (Remix Magazine), which was a strong influence, and due to a past life of crime; his lyrics were driven by real life hardships that audiences could connect to
Sing their song, play their music, and don't forget to buy their single / album!!
brakes applied at |3/04/2009 11:55:00 PM|
PETALING JAYA, MALAYSIA: Medical experts believe that one reason why most cases of depression are untreated is because the illness may be masked as pain in the body.
Malaysian Psychiatric Association president Dr Yen Teck Hoe said many patients and medical practitioners fail to recognise physical pain as a common symptom of depression.
"Doctors often dispense painkillers to relieve the pain as it is presumed that the root of the problem is from the area that hurts.
"However, people forget that it is the brain and mind which controls the body," he said at the first Malaysian Pain and Depression Day Media Workshop at the PJ Hilton here yesterday.
Universiti Malaya Medical Centre (UMMC) psychological medicine department senior lecturer Dr Jesjeet Singh Gill said depression may be manifested as pain because the illness would disrupt serotonin activity in the body. Serotonin is the bodily chemical that regulates pain.
"When this happens, depressed people are unable to control the painful sensation compared to someone who is not depressed," he said.
The department's consultant psychiatrist Prof Dr Nor Zuraida Zainal said depression also weakens the body's immunity and increases a person's chances of getting an infection.
She revealed that 59 per cent of lower back pain patients were diagnosed with depression while previous case studies showed that pain also occurred in other areas such as the chest and jaw.
Asean Federation for Psychiatry and Mental Health president Prof Dr Mohamad Hussain Habil said the current economic crisis, including risk of unemployment were factors leading to depression today.
"It is projected that depression will be the second most disabling disease by 2020," he said.
Another department senior lecturer Dr Ting Joe Hang said doctors should interact more with their patients to pick up hints on depression during diagnosis.
"Depressed patients should not stop medication prematurely because there is a 60 per cent to 70 per cent chance of a relapse," he added.
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wow... 2020.... all mental cases.... well, the 2nd coming of jesus better come quick. humans are evil. they should all be destroyed. greed everything destroyed. leave animals alone. the normal food cycle. humans should be wiped out.
brakes applied at |3/04/2009 11:31:00 PM|
copied the following from my bro's blog:"I don't want to go, not yet.
So much has been going on lately, besides the usual hanging out, eating and trying to raise oil prices by using up as much as possible (high demand), other things have been going on as well. Mixed emotions, thoughts are all running through, one by one, letting me identify and explore each and every one of them through different situations, experiences and sometimes even awkward moments.
Looking back in life on the things i've done and on the things i've left undone. The decisions i made, the paths i chose.. All seems justified, feelings played an important role in many of these decisions..
Skills that were obtained by lessons, skills that were obtained through experiences. Mistakes were made along the way. Some minor yet some grave. Some patched up so perfectly, some left behind with a huge scar. Scars that mark my past, yet some that challenges my future.
Knowledge. Given unto me, searched by me. Knowledge is the one that kills. It takes away lives as easily and quickly as how life comes about. Knowledge resides in the brain, taps feelings from the heart, then kills with the body. How does one stop this never-ending cycle?
Courage, boldness, what have you?
Fear. Fear is a feeling. It comes straight from the heart. Fear can take control over your body, making you do things you never thought possible. Fear helps one advance sometimes, once in a while, but prolonged fear damages the brain and the body, leading to breakdowns.
Time. Just a second makes such a big difference. Stop and think for just that one second before acting and the end result might be totally different.
Life is given unto us, life will be taken back from us. Life can be what we chose it to be, or it could just be what it was supposed to be.
Concentration of the mind at 100% is a beautiful thing which produces marvelous results. 2 heads are better than 1, agreed. When you try to concentrate on something so hard and nothing seems to be working, don't give up just yet.
Love. The things you do for love.."
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wow..... young and thinking about death? what happened to nissan?
anyway, i guess my take on life is that one should do what he or she likes... freedom to do, choose and not be contained and controlled in anyway. Yes to a certain point where it crosses the limit, one should be stopped by someone.
Looking back in life.... there's alot of crazy stuff i did, never realli regretted, its me....whats the use of regretting, everything is done... enjoy and learn from all the mistakes.
knowledge hurts the heart.... its true.... the more u know the more u fear. Now, fear is another whole issue which is going to start a long blog post and i aint going to go about it, but fear is sometimes needed in life. fear helps stop all the crazy things going on. fear helps me to cool down. fear brings me 100% concentration.
Time. i want time to be on my side, but unfortunately like the rest of the world, time waits for no men. so make the best out of it. Yet at times, i wish time just fast forward... i want it to forward 1 year from now. hopefully things will be better. or maybe as fast as possible.... quater life crisis. where has all my loved ones go? i cant even tell anyone how rotten i feel inside. how stress and worried i am. how fearful i am. My wings are clipped. Freedom destroyed. i got so much anger inside. i tried praying.... apprently praying in the toilet doesnt work. maybe it does at church. ok back to time... yeah, i wish time was on my side... more days in a week to do the things i wanna do. i wanna go back to martial arts... maybe light ones for interest and not to lose weight.... i wanna cycle cuz i like cycling and jog cuz it takes things off my mind not to lose weight. but i no longer have any kaki and time to do all these. Time management? 24 hrs... 9 hrs wrk, 4 hrs sch, sometimes week end got sch other days too tired.... 7 hrs or less of slp..... why is it that there are people out there who have all the time in the world and all the money to support their activities? isnt it unfair? yet there are people who DONT! even have food to eat!!!!
in short.. life's unfair... people say u make what u want out of your life. HOW? i would loved to. Eat when ever, work when ever, study when ever, no dead lines, game when ever, say what you wanna say, do stupid things and dont get interrogated, blog freely with no body commenting and reporting and gossiping, watch tv.... wow, i love tv, but havent watched it in years.... anime, also no time to watch, half hour episodes... biking... never , jogging, never.... luckily weekends still got a bit of time to catch movies etc.
Sleep is important, thats what parents and doctors say... i agree.... it takes everything away. u don feel stressed or angry or anything when u sleep( presumably there's no nightmares or dreams). you don feel anything, ur body and mind gets to recover, thats the best escape and yet it helps to recharge you for the next day of life.... somehow, i can sleep like 10 hours and it doesnt seem to help recover... muscles still aches, still tired after that... could be a diet issue. yet sleeping feels good, and maybe it can be considered an escape out of reality made by god, where it is fair, everyone gets to sleep and during that few hours of sleep, one relaxes and is carefree.... freedom of the mind is something most people have...
BTW, my new favourite song.... freedom (akon, the black lonely guy)
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Tuesday, February 17, 2009
today, 2pm in the afternoon, and my blood is still boiling over last nite incident, it started with 2 cute lovely dogs, in the past i had a dog, my mother said i bought it to spite her, all along, i like pets, although costly, i gave some of my allowance to their funding when i was young, i remember trying to ask for a bit of money to bring the dog to see the doctor, which my mum said no, she hated pets and dogs, for what reason she never said, i end up borrowing 80+ bucks from a schoolmate just to get my dog to a vet.
Now, my brother bought 2 dogs, and gave 1 to me and my wife for a wedding gift, we name ours sushi, while my bro named his emo, we couldn't come up with a name so we named it opposite of its breed, and emo bcuz the dog looked really emo. my mum flipped again saying that my brother did it to spite her, my brother on the other hand, was like totally in for dogs like babies wanting toys. he called me to fetch him at some u-lu road, lorong something, and had no idea where, when i arrived, i saw 2 dogs..... half of me was happy, the other half took the better of me and i screamed cuz i know "go back to the house sure die"..... true enuff, mum said it was to spite her.... with no relevant reason or story behind..... haiz... then i ask why, she said she was allergic to dog pee and shit. i checked with a doctor, no such allergy has been found till date. i googled. same story, nothing...... the only thing i could find was dog fur could affect. but she said to me it wasnt fur. it was pee and shit. psychological? i dunno. so the dogs were kept at a corner of the house, which was in between the toilet, kitchen, maids room and backyard. mum made more noise, went out at like 2 am in the morning to buy a cage to put them in the backyard as neighbour cat has scratch my old dog. and oh by the way, when i had my old dog, he was given away without me knowing when i was in sch. the reason being.... i did not take care and bring it out for a walk. WHY! it was during that period when i tore my knee ligament and i couldnt move about that much, suffering in pain and in silence, cuz if i were to even seek help from my parents, more scolding. i dint have any money to see a specialist. i just kept quiet, at that time, i don't know i tore my ligament, but i knew it was bad. i only got it diagnosed when i was in the army, which an operation was needed, i refused. i decided to pray instead of going for an op. till date, there is some pain but sometimes its ok. depending on how much i walk/exert. who can i talk to about all these? no one. My mother always say the same sentence. she doesnt want to talk to me cuz she thinks i am dumb, immature, etc etc.... and i am a kid..... ok, back to where i was, the dogs were kept in the back yard. Sushi fell sick, dog cough, checked with a doctor and a vet, it is not spreadable to humans. my bro and i made a partition in the cage for them, but after a week of medication, the vet advise that we should seperate them till they are ok. now, the house rule was no dogs in the house, so where else to put? really, am at wits end. i would love to have my dog in my room, but i cant cuz i am an asthmatic, so last option was my brother's room. my mum found out, flipped..... screamed etc etc. then she kept quiet, suddenly last night, when i came back from nite class, i open my car door and heard ppl screaming. my brother was getting screwed. not realli sure what happen. fed the dogs and went to bath. after my bath, i needed to come down to my brother's room to get paper for my wife to print her assignment as the dead line was today. well well.... i came down, she came out, just nice, and started screaming, like a round 2 session, round 1 did not satisfy her. MASSIVE ASSUMPTIONS AND ACCUSATIONS WERE HURLED AT MY BROTHER WHILE I WAS TAKING THE PAPERS, AND AS I WAS LEAVING, IT STARTED TO TURN TOWARDS ME. suddenly it became, the 3rd floor was smelly and 2nd floor etc. NO PETS IN THE HOUSE! and shot me. words were exchange with my brother asking her what are u trying to say, cuz everything she's saying and hurling towards me was contridicting, i said, i think you are confused, and my mother took the clothes basket and hurled it at me. i am so glad that my wife did not have to see this as she was bathing. later, it lead to me returning the basket and she kicking it down. my brother too blew up. since prob november,dec 2008, all these pressure started. as usual, she would complain to my father behind our backs, and my father would sms and call and talk to me about my brother. Me, who is being sandwhich, can only talk to my bro, telling him what to and not to do. my mother is one lonely individual whom is yearning for attention. ever since i was attached , she got jealous and made tons of sarcastic remarks hurting my then gf. quietly, indirectly shooting her down. Now that we are married, she has no consideration for anyone's health. screaming everyday. last nite i was blame for banging the door.... i ask when, she said everytime, but no!. i ask my wife, my brother when the fuck did i ever bang doors,???? everyday i see her banging the door and i even commented b4, "wah lau, so noisy" i hate the sound of banging doors... nevermind, as usual accused. in one previous argument i had with my mum, and even talked to a counselor, the response was, your mum wants attention. i went home and ask her, she refuse to say anything. few arguments later, she finally said, i spent and wasted all my years taking care of you 2 idiots, now i ask you to listen, u all don listen. listen what? WHAT WHAT WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!! what did u say but we did not listen? so my mum feels rejected, cuz her 2 sons are growing up and having their own life. So what happens next? my mum just nags and accuse my father for not being a good father. When a man is done from a days work, i don't think he should be burden by nagging. her choice of words are always mean, and directly hitting people and driving people up the wall. My father had to tell me because of u 2 sons, not listening to your mum, its killing him, stress from work, wife kids. So fine. every time my dad talks, his words hurts. he does it unknowingly. always compared, lincoln was more problematic, dont want leon to follow your foot steps so need to talk and advice him. EVERY SINGLE TIME I GET A FEED BACK SESSION FROM MY FATHER, I PITY 3 PEOPLE, MY FATHER WHO IS UNDER ALOT OF PRESSURE, MY BROTHER WHOM I AM GIVING PRESSURE TO( BECAUSE ITS A CYCLE, MY MUM ORDERS HIM TO SLEEP, HE CANT OR DID NOT, IT GOES TO DAD, AND DAD WILL TALK TO ME AND IN TURN I TALK TO MY BROTHER, SO WHERE THE HELL IS MY BROTHER GOING TO VENT? this cannot that cannot, suddenly "house rules" came about, what the hell is the house rules? listen what ??? what what waht!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! listen what>????????? so for the past 2-3 months, new orders and house rules all start coming up, and i keep helping my brother to comply to some really "cool" house rules..... till the point where he told me, lincoln, imagine ur life like that, the only thing i can say in return was, i went through the same phrase , maybe worse with alot of physical hurt. i got to know god when i was really young, a fren told me , jesus loves u, and when u pray u believe, it will work. so i stupidly pray, please heal the pain on my body as there is more to come, dumb me, i should have prayed heal my mother. now, for a year++ i have been praying, but god has not come and help. i am getting dishearten. no matter how many prayers i said a day, things don change at home. my mother needs attention. so in order to get attention, she finds something to pluck us kids, and just to get more attention, then it goes on, more craving to be noticed, complains were filed to my father, in turn, killing us all. guess what? sleeping at 5am everyday and having 3 hours of slp is bad? NO! its not as bad as the amount of pressure that has been put on the 3 men at home. my dad said to me when i was young, saving a life is better then building a 7 story pagoda. so animals are not a life? now my mother is taking down 3 men, and maybe soon another 2 other lives ... everday after work, i come home, and my wife is so stressed and sad that she have to see her husband keeping quiet coming into the room and under so much pressure and throwing temper behind closed doors. my mother challenged us kids to earn as much as dad before we can have a say. my brother is 17, a teen, i am married, yet we are not given a small bit of respect and have to stand there and shut up and lun and lun and lun my mum's erratic emotions. yesterday, it was really boiling point..... TONS OF ASSUMTIONS THAT CAME FROM THAT BRAIN OF MY MOTHERS AND TONS OF ACCUSATIONS OF " OH U DID IT TO SPITE ME AND CHALLENGE ME" OR " WE CHALLENGE WHO GETS KICK OUT OF THE HOUSE 1ST, I WILL STAY AND WIN" ... IT WAS LIKE WTF WTF WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! none of these has crossed my brother's and my head.... its impossible man..... i dunno what to do already. My mum always talks about health, sleep early eat healthy..... but u know what? i think i almost died not due to food intake or sleep. i couldnt sleep peacefully, grumpy while sleeping after the whole arguement. wife was pissed cuz i was bleeding when i say i will be able to lun and keep quiet at home. she felt hurt that i was bleeding, she felt angry at herself cuz she as a witness(semi witness) cuz she could hear from the room and saw the aftermath , she was angry cuz she dont and cant do anything to help the situation. i don blame her. really. last night i was so so so pissed. it reach the stage of , " lets play with life" but for the sake of my brother and my wife, i had to cool off. really. last nite was turning point. i got up this morning after 5hrs of slp to work and couldnt breathe. i then remembered my mum was quarrelling with me non stop over my gf last time where i almost collapsed at west coast mac over the phone. pretty insane yeah? i had no idea why and the doctor said it was asthma and stress could have triggered it. so , yes, pls tell me sleeping less a day compared to getting getting a stress related asthma attack? all i can do is to thank god for food, a roof and everything i have left. For those who happen to come past this post or read my blog, i may or may not know you, please pray for my mother hormone imbalance or what every issues that she has to be healed. Amen. up till now, the anger still remains, why was i the one who was abused and until today am still tortured indirectly. why, what is god's plan for me? someone once said that i would be a very powerful evangelist, is it god's plan to make me suffer so that i can tell the world my experiences to convince them etc? or what? i finally understand what my dad and mum always say, "lincoln and leon always piss of dad to the point where he cant sleep and is so angry and immune system and everything shut down." i finally know it, massively pissed. really really pissed, i cant seem to clam down after so many hours, not like me, after a nite's sleep all's usually forgotten...... listen... LISTEN WHAT?????? WOOF WOOF!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT WHAT WHAT!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????????????????? FUCK LAR! AM FUCKING PISSED. WAY TOO PISSED TO MAKE ANY MORE SENSE TODAY. HOW THE FUCK TO DO MY ASSIGNMENT>? SPAM THE PAGE WITH MORE EMO CRAP AND VULGARITIES>?>???????????>??>>!!!! LISTEN ...... BO TIAH WEI...... LISTEN WHAT!@!!! WHAT LAR WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Monday, February 16, 2009
THE BIBLE SPEAKS. EVERYONE LISTENS BUT WHO FOLLOWS?
Luke 8:56 (New International Version) 56Her parents were astonished, but he ordered them not to tell anyone what had happened. <- astonish, shock, surprise, one should protect. Luke 18:29 (New International Version) 29"I tell you the truth," Jesus said to them, "no one who has left home or wife or brothers or parents or children for the sake of the kingdom of God <- AMEN! Luke 21:16 (New International Version) 16You will be betrayed even by parents, brothers, relatives and friends, and they will put some of you to death. <- trust only the lord, he will give you wisdom, strength and every thing. John 9:2 (New International Version) 2His disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?" <- Blame no one, but look for a solution. John 9:3 (New International Version) 3"Neither this man nor his parents sinned," said Jesus, "but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life. <- everything happens for a reason John 9:20 (New International Version) 20"We know he is our son," the parents answered, "and we know he was born blind. <-understanding his kids John 9:22 (New International Version) 22His parents said this because they were afraid of the Jews, for already the Jews had decided that anyone who acknowledged that Jesus was the Christ[a] would be put out of the synagogue. <- like the jews were afraid, children of god fear god, like child of men fear men. John 9:23 (New International Version) 23That was why his parents said, "He is of age; ask him." <- understanding that the child has passions of his own, right or wrong is for god to judge. 2 Corinthians 12:14 (New International Version) 14Now I am ready to visit you for the third time, and I will not be a burden to you, because what I want is not your possessions but you. After all, children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children. <- Amen the heavy responsibilities of parents. 1 Timothy 5:4 (New International Version) 4But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God. <- halleluiah Hebrews 11:23 (New International Version) 23By faith Moses' parents hid him for three months after he was born, because they saw he was no ordinary child, and they were not afraid of the king's edict. <- every parent no matter what, law or not should protect their own child. Genesis 3:16 (New International Version) 16 To the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." <- I think men likes this
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Friday, February 6, 2009
People say that the mind is a very powerful tool and it can do wonders. The thing is, how do you do it? Love and Understanding someone is really completely different, love is an emotion while understanding someone is from the mind. Now, the mind, Understanding someone is easy, patterns etc tells you things when you analyze. But after analyzing, and understanding a person characteristic, are you able to do anything? lets take a craving for example, a person has a craving, and everyone experience a craving before, some till the extent of going mad for laksa for example, but lets just assume that laksa is poisonous, will you still feed the person who is craving for laksa? or dont feed the person and let the person hate you? opportunity cost-> tells us alot about life and daily decisions. The mind is a powerful tool, so how do you use it to your advantage and not let it control you? Well, i have this problem, i cant control my mind. Ask anyone of age and they usually give u an advice that is meant for someone their age, tell someone who is younger and they won't understand it, and tell someone your age and the reply would be somewhere along the line of "oh well life's like that, what to do?" or "like that lor". Having an untrained mind is really wearing me down. when i worry about something, people say, why worry? or leave everything to god. But there don't seem to be any solutions except "opportunity cost" take one and leave the other. i would gladly like to know how to not worry at all, yes, there is a theory, when things happen, solve one at a time, other theories like, if it is a financial problem, there will be a way out, or when the boat is reaching the river bank, it will park on its own, if there is a problem, then it is not the end, nothing is impossible, but the thing is, how do you rest a worn out mind which battles daily and really really make it worry free? this is something i would really like to find out. When you tell people your problems people gives advices, although there maybe a solution, but while waiting for a problem to be a full blown issue and then put the remedy to it, the days before the problem blows up are the ones that is filled with worry. Who can i talk to? The more people who knows it, it is likely to spread, and for others take it as i am grumbling or nagging at things. But the thing is, how to stop worrying? i find that life depends alot on opportunity cost. seriously, its one or the other. Even if i tell people my worries, there is not much that can be done, well, i am an open person so when people ask, i give a full coverage of my story, but nothing can be done as matters have not yet blown up? the thing is why worry twice, before things blow up and after it blows up, but i still do not know how to not worry. Understanding people is easy, living up to standards is not, but then again, why should i live up to standards? God created us with a mind, in which we can think and decide for ourselves the best solution that fits us, but at times, the best solution offends others unknowingly. Who in this world can understand someone perfectly and "comply" to what ever "standards" another has? i have seen some people whom i consider more or less quite perfect, although it could be just an exterior, but i still haven seen anyone being perfect. Someone once said that your soul mate and you must have more or less a common interest etc etc then it can be considered a soul mate, but i beg to differ, a soul mate is one who covers your arse in times of need and you should do that in return. Well, life is short. although i cant help but worry and think of nonsense, i still believe that one should live life to the fullest. Although sometimes it seems impossible of happening, just carry on dreaming that it will, hope is something that ignites self motivation to carry on towards their goals. Sometimes, i really wish that a day consist of more then 24 hours, while others call it time management, sometimes i wish it has less. Oh well..... Sometimes, doing things monotonously makes you wonder about alot of things in life, whether will history repeat itself like the monotony of us humans going to the toilet to pee or can things actually change for the better? To my problems and worries, i ran out of solution, i wish a third party can help, but the third party has to be continents away and not know who i am at all. Any 3rd parties? haha, kidding!
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Wednesday, February 4, 2009
turtle farm @ jurong.... godzilla was created from here i think, lools totally like godzilla except that there is a shell.... which looks like an armor with spikes
pignose...
abalone?
it cant keep it's neck in!
godzilla!!
so cute!
brakes applied at |2/04/2009 06:51:00 PM|
Blabbering: Sometimes, when people say or write harsh words out, is it out of anger at the moment or is it what they really mean? people say life is full of surprises, i think its full of disappointment, through school life, disappointment with results, people disappointed, me disappointed. Government decides on which unit you are posted to, disappointment. work, home, everywhere, just orders and orders and orders and when orders are not met, disappointment, sometimes on 1 side sometimes on both side. Rich people becomes strict and lonely, poor people are birds in cages. so how does 1 live in moderation? What does 1 need to do to ensure that himself and no one gets disappointed? is it because of expectations> "with no expectations comes no disappointment"(a late friend use to say), was that how he took life that simply? the hack care attitude? no..... it seems that a smile brings warmth and happiness to others when himself in fact is under tons of pressure..... though i forgot what happen already, that was the only statement i remembered. Now people in my life face disappointment from me, and i have been facing disappointment from everything around, everything i touch turns into a mess, people say why worry? worry now, when the results are out, u worry again, so why worry twice>? then someone pls tell me how to not worry?being simple minded and not worrying are 2 different things. the economic situation has just made things worse..... i don believe in a food chain but rather a food cycle, in order to maintain balance, it must go in a circle not up or down and never change.......oh well, live goes on..... with butterflies in the stomach worrying and wings being caged and pinned down, if reincarnation does occur, i wish to be a bird in jurong bird park...... the freedom to come and go.....
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Monday, February 2, 2009
friendster and msn deleted
brakes applied at |2/02/2009 09:17:00 PM|
On to a new life ahead :)
brakes applied at |2/02/2009 01:02:00 AM|
Saturday, January 17, 2009
you're the sweet dreams that soothe me when i cant fall asleep you're the field in the middle of the city im rushing by in the speed of light
you're the strong resolution when i found all the piece you're the church bells a ringin in the evening im always quiet your whisper comfort bless my heart i get so weak
Chorus: oh you're lovely lovely you're the center of my universe (my universe) a thousand times i look around your heart why
Chorus: oh you're lovely lovely you're the center of my universe (my universe) a million ways i cannot explain you're lovely
you're the soft words that touch me when i just can't speak you're the breeze on the ocean in the morning im whining when to greet the day
you're the flowers i remember singin into me colors true are cold than rain prize and week soft and weak and new day sun make me see
Chorus: oh you're lovely lovely you're the center of my universe (my universe) a thousand times i look around your heart why
Chorus: oh you're lovely lovely you're the center of my universe (my universe) a million ways i cannot explain you're lovely
i understand that there may be grief and there may be pain but i am aware you blind the darkness with who you are because
Chorus: oh you're lovely lovely you're the center of my universe (my universe) a thousand times i look around your heart why
Chorus: oh you're lovely lovely you're the center of my universe (my universe) a million ways i cannot explain you're lovely
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Monday, January 5, 2009
my christmas crabitat from y ah sia kia.....
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preparing for....
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Tuesday, December 30, 2008
2008 was a year of experience..... fun filled, loving, painful and a year with memories that will last this 1 life time.... and although several bad experience, it isnt good riddance to the eventful 2008 but in fact it will last..... some people thinks they hit rock bottom and the usual logic is what goes up must come down.... and thats bull.... like a recession, no one knows where rock bottom is. however, no one really grows up as growing and learning are life long things. it doesnt take 1 situation to "grow up". Friends and family suppose to be a good support to painful events that occurs but it doest cure the pain does it? deep inside oneself the pain will be there and last forever, friends and family distract pain temporarily only and when u are ready to climb that ladder climb it... only to fall again. its not other's that is a problem.... but urself.... the problem did not lie with anyone one but yourself. and with 2008 ending.... IT SOUNDS GOOD!
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Tuesday, December 23, 2008
that sounds good......really it really does.... i wish so but it isnt really happenning ..... people come people go and like what air treks are used for... they carve their pain and learning process on others and moves up the tower. ok ... am going nuts from the amout of wrk and shortage of slp..... all i wanna blog now is MERRY CHRISTMAS! but wont be celebrating this year..... too busy with assignments.... and the upcoming events....but hey.... MERRY CHRISTMAS! i never realised it was christmas already.... been so busy!!!! MERRY CHIRSTMAS MERRY CHRISTMAS MERRYCHRISTMAS....... i am so short on wishing everyone merry christmas.... so to all my friends reading my blog.... good luck & hope u all can spend ur christmas with ur loved ones.... hopefully the loved ones last forever.....
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Saturday, November 15, 2008
econs:opportunity cost..... pick 1 out of 2 options only. i picked option one, which resulted in me facing an empty white wall and being ignored. why? to be supportive. i got nothing but sufficient sleep in return. i feel very small and pathetic, i have to be subjected to terms and condition and a higher authority in every single aspect of my life.Wrk, sch, social status....etc u know wads the amazing thing, option 2 also will give me pure depression as i wud feel small and pathetic as well like i had been feeling since they started the technical issues. so what the hell is opportunity cost when both options smashes shit in ur face?i can carry on bitching and bitching but wads the use..... an action of change must be implemented but how often can one implement something?
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Friday, November 14, 2008
Many a times, people do not realise that they are egoistic and fouled temper. Its usually with this combination that they cannot accept criticism. For those who has already made it in life, good for them, it doesn’t really matter if people were to criticise them. Often, egoistic people doesn’t realise how big their ego is and thus making people around them irritated. There is another type of egoistic people, those whose ego larger then earth but has not made it there yet. Pathetic as it seems, they still show people how good they are and think that they are always right and never realised that their ego is so huge. To some, winning an argument is a must, to others, it may just be about explaining their chain of thoughts what causes them to be egoistic. A child once told his mother off when she was criticising him that what a lousy mother she is for being demoralising him everyday with no encouragement at all. Foolishly this child even challenged his mother to name 5 good things about him, and when was the last time she commented on him, but never did he realise that all along, there were really no good things about him. It dawn on him one day that all the people around him, especially all his kin and loved ones have been trying to tell him the same thing. Anger management and accept criticism to improve is the way to go for most people. The child’s father once related an experience of his that a lot of people had looked down on him when he was younger, thus giving him the urge to succeeded in life. It is about the constant torture and knowing the key trigger to inflict pain and anger to push someone to succeed, and in the process it may be very very hurting to everyone but somehow it may or may not successful. Encouragement and commenting are two different things altogether, and the child realises that he has nothing, no accomplishments, nothing, therefore one day, he had just given up his will of fighting and arguing and accepting the fact that however big his ego, whether he realise the magnitude of it or not, it doest really matter as he was a no one in life. In fact, according to this child, I spoke to, it wasn’t about winning or losing an argument but the child only wants a chance to speak his mind/thoughts, let the other parties, think about it and then give a conclusion what their view is, and if both views are different, then they should each do it differently. “Pride kill” as often as it said by people, some beg to differ, some will succeed just so to ensure that they have the respect they ought to have, some just let it kill them. The whole society is in a rat race right now, as the currency moves, as the consumer price index and the stock market moves, lives are changing, people’s thoughts are changing, cultures are changing, but one thing maintains, the world’s economy will never let several sector fall, finance, education and healthcare. This child has along knew of many factors that affect society, but has identified what is important, to gain back the respect of others, maybe because of his huge ego that he had never realised, because of the wrong doings of his and the people around him who affected him. This child I spoke to has many unseen factors that he wishes to keep to himself but i heard the gist of it and I realise that he pities himself. Pitying oneself, is not going to bring about any changes but doing something about his situation and changing his attitude will be the best option out. Anger management classes, would be a good way to start as criticism affects his mood and his anger immediately breaks out. This child told me one thing, which I have yet to reply him, as I do not really have this answer, if he were to change and accept everything, will things ultimately change for him? He was concerned that the other people whose ego is larger then life doesn’t change and why should he go through all these. But I have one answer in responding his most recent email, that I picked up for lecture yesterday, which I heard many qualified speakers talk about but had totally forgotten it myself. I composed an email and wrote back to this child, explain what my university lecturer talked about, a talk which I heard umpteen times and have totally got seasoned to it, the lecturer said: “ her boss usually tells her she isn’t good at writing and thus she never really wrote, until recently her new boss encourage her to team up with another professor and write a book, and it was publish, and she carried on writing and when she met up with her ex boss, she gave her ex boss four books that was published, 1 of which was a joint effort with a professor.” the lesson the lecturer gave me was why let others demoralise you, there is a term, self motivation, one need to be self motivated. I wrote a corresponded mail back to they boy with only to receive another email that simply says : how? The thing is, no one will tell you how, its something that has to figure out yourself and quickly as time waits for no men. I also shared with this child about my personal issues, where I have been labelled by 3 different people, sensitive, argumentative, and with a temper that clouds my rational thinking. it took 3 people to tell me the same thing before I realised it. Yes I have realised this fact, yes I am and want to change, but I too questioned myself, whether does these 3 people know that they have the same issue? but I realise that it doesn’t matter, change yourself before you change others is the way to go. Like what was mentioned earlier, the people who have made it and cannot accept criticism compared to those who cannot make it (losers) who cannot accept criticism makes a huge difference. Corresponding with this child has been an interesting insight, nevertheless, I believe that everyone should continue to improve themselves through the short pathetic life they have on earth.
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Wednesday, November 12, 2008
i find that all cakes are the same, they have sponge, cream, flavours of what every you like, which can be considered different characteristic, but at the end of the day, cakes are still the same. but i know i like 1 particular cake, the black forest. many times, i was tempted to get other cakes and had other cakes before and regretted, it wasn't up to standard, it wasnt what i thought it was, nice on the outside shitty on the inside, and i found by chance this realli nice black forest cake. but after eating it once, the shop said it was sold out and out of production. but everytime i go pass the shop i will still ask.... if u never bothered trying, u will never know.... and i happen to hear this song on the radio while typing this blog entry.....its been a long time, probably since sec sch days since i heard this song... lol class 90.5....
I DON'T WANNA KNOW {ft p-diddy} lyrics....
Somebody said they saw you The person you were kissing wasn't me And I would never ask you I just kept it to myself
[chorus] I don't want to know If you're playin' me Keep it on the low Cuz my heart cant take it anymore And if you're playin' now Please don't let it show Oooh baby, I don't want to know
I think about it when I hold you And lookin' in your eyes I can't believe I don't need to know the truth Baby, keep it to yourself
[chorus] I don't want to know If you're playin' me Keep it on the low Cuz my heart cant take it anymore And if you're playin' now Please don't let it show Oooh baby, I don't want to know
Thought you're better then me Watched you fall asleep Say you walk away Don't talk to me Ooh don't tell me Better off that way All that I can say Stay away from me
I don't even know where your Whereabouts are how you movin I know when you in the house When you cruisin' This is provin' My love you abusin' I cant understand how a man Got you choosin Undecided I came and provided My undivided You came and denied it Don't even try it I know when you lyin' Don't even do that I know why you cryin' Im not applyin' no pressure Just want to let you know That I don't wan to let you go And I don't want to let you leave Cant say I didn't let you breath Gave you extra cheese Put you in the SUV You wanted ice So I made you freeze Made you hot Like the western beats Last time you invest in me Cuz if not then its best you leave holla
[chorus] I don't want to know If you're playin' me Keep it on the low Cuz my heart cant take it anymore And if you're playin' now Please don't let it show Oooh baby, I don't want to know If you're playin' me Keep it on the low Cuz my heart cant take it anymore And if you're playin' now Please don't let it show Oooh baby, I don't want to know If you're playin' me Keep it on the low Cuz my heart cant take it anymore And if you're playin' now Please don't let it show Oooh baby, I don't want to know
oh well, back to where i was about cakes, when you get tempted, you buy it, then eat it, then sometimes while eating, u find that there's a funny taste or there maybe something wrong, other times it felt good eating but lands you in the toilet for hours.... the most important thing when deciding on a cake is knowing its ingredients, and not only that, but prepare for the consequences at the same time, u've gotta prepare urself for the long hours of toilet viewing when purchasing a cake..... and definetly in 1 lifetime, when you eat a lousy cake, you will remember it because cakes are so nice but suddenly a lousy tasting cakes comes along, you realise that you will never visit this particular cake shop again... ah.... i miss that once in a life time surprize black forest cake.....12 feb 2008..... which also reminded me how sweet was valentine's day, i was busy and so broke, my dear decided to home cook everything, so many dishes and brought it out and we had a nice view at marina pier and dined there on the sand/rocks, relaxing, the 1st outdoor dining that my gf prepared.... something special that will be with me forever....
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Sunday, November 9, 2008
6november, my birthday, woke up, sent my car for inspection, ran to police post, ica, had the biggest bowl of prawn mee, ran home to collect stuff then to bugis, then ... the blind fold.... my fiancee blindfolded me, put me in the car, drove me up hill and down hill, with corners etc... but i was sleeping... the beginning of the journey, all she said was" u still can see!" i and keep saying i cant see cuz my eyes were shut, waiting to dose off.... when i reached the place... she got out of the car, left the engine running( i din notice this, cuz the car was silent, the mitsubishi) then was lead by her up 3 stairs, banged my toe..... up a slope.... then into a lift where i touched a guy by accident, then lead all the way to .... a platform which i stepped on and it moved.... a surprize cable car dinner.... mt faber... sky dining.... it was a good dinner, with perfect ambiance.. we both were scared of heights...and i was shaking the cable car(due to my weight) when i shift about... and she was screaming don move! while having tomato soup..... we bth needed the toilet so after the 1st loop , we opted for a proper table, where we were lead to the "magic kingdom" , beautiful toilet, scenery, and the best service.... after dinner, desserts were served and a surprize cake came, black forest, my favourite, with the whole group of management staff singing a bday song.... we ate and ran back to feed the poor starving dog..... so that more or less sums up the whole day's event... ( pictures below, on the previous post, and sabrina's blog).
the weekends were spent in a spa( from sabrina's mum), boy i never knew how expensive these stuff were.... and a complimentary movie from citi business , 007, quantam of solace. a jog and walk on sat nite at east coast attempting to lose a bit of weight..... assignments were done over the weekends... splited up her a bit and there abit, but sunday was a full day of assignments... workshop will be held on tuesday, and sch starts on 13th nov.... i find pre course assignments dumb but good to score marks... btw, i hate references, citation etc... they are a massive waste of time.
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rest of the pics, is in sabrina's blog, right side of my blog
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Tuesday, November 4, 2008
prickly heat head/NASA "Astronoid" insisted a photo to be taken.... so here goes, we ended it off with this photo... 2days 2nites of petrol wasting and food wasting and arsoning and waiting and waiting and bloated stomach of well cooked food & cake to lack of sleep to a lonely drinker to a hi fi system with music blasting to a sob sob movie.... i shall not discuss the nite activities.... these are the only photos i have so far, the rest, tons of it has not been uploaded, not to mention, R's video...
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my 2.5kg bday cake....
its been 6 days and it hasnt been finished... so huge!
an engraved fountain pen... my bday pressie
my chopin board
R's good idea....(guy in photo isnt R)
boy.... he must be having a nite mare
he sleeps so noisily that even the guest who came couldnt resist doing his head! prickly heat
he sleeps so soundly still
btw, he's not naked
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Wednesday, October 15, 2008
tribal warrior wannabe
i support biore pore pack!
really innocent looking.... the shy side of my dark secret... goth... yah rite..... was messing ard with make up!
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went to a nursery.... saw flowers and cactus..
3.90 each... and it looks like....
bite off the dead skin
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Monday, October 13, 2008
to me, pens are like rims, there are soooo many designs, but none i like... this pen... the chopin was like the 3 spoke advan rims, that actually caught my eye... and walla.... it was given to my as a birthday surprize!
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Thursday, August 28, 2008
sorri for the late updates on pics dear, busy recently....
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glutton at work... 1 of the many many pics...
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Wednesday, August 27, 2008
gave up the wr200 and got these instead....
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that was the most farked up face i could make, 1st time to tuas circuit, to check out the place b4 getting the wr200
got bored, went down to toys r us
the kids in us :D who says u cant be young! :P
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Sunday, August 24, 2008
A Message by George Carlin:
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We ' ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We ' ve added years to life not life to years. We ' ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We ' ve done larger things, but not better things.
We ' ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We ' ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We ' ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn ' t cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
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Thursday, August 21, 2008
FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER by Dov Heller, M.A.
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!
If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here.
Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot more!!! Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.
Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or (2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life! Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION 2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person? This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship. Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give.. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and selfâ€' absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.
QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?
Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them. In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective... There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones don't appreciate you? Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and caring words or annotations.
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important. Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS: 1. TRUST 2. COMMUNICATION 3. INTIMACY 4. A SENSE OF HUMOR 5. SHARING TASKS 6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.) 7. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS 8. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE 9.GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT 10. CONCERN AND CARE FOR YOUR LOVER IN YOUR OWN WAYS. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment
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Wednesday, August 20, 2008
wow, have been so busy recently and not much time to wander ard, but apart being so busy, i think sometimes its good to do a little self reflection, instead of blaming others all the time like i always do, i should reflect and ensure that was i doing things right or was i doing something wrong that caused people react in a different way and in turn hit me "left right center" <--- ah.... a long time since sec sch days where this has been used.... back here at the desk blogging while waiting for the coms to load.... did a bit of self reflection, i guess thats enuff for today, back to wrk!
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heard the song on the radio this morning to wrk.... sad, reminds me of my previous post... poor gal... Where'd you go? I miss you so, Seems like it's been forever, That you've been gone.
She said "Some days I feel like shit, Some days I wanna quit, and just be normal for a bit," I don't understand why you have to always be gone, I get along but the trips always feel so long, And, I find myself trying to stay the phone, 'Cause your voice always helps me to not feel so alone, But I feel like an idiot, workin' my day around the call, But when I pick up I don't have much to say, So, I want you to know it's a little fucked up, That I'm stuck here waitin', at times debatin', Tellin' you that I've had it with you and your career, Me and the rest of the family here singing "Where'd you go?"
I miss you so, Seems like it's been forever, That you've been gone. Where'd you go? I miss you so, Seems like it's been forever, That you've been gone, Please come back home...
You know the place where you used to live, Used to barbecue up burgers and ribs, Used to have a little party every Halloween with candy by the pile, But now, you only stop by every once and a while, Shit, I find myself just fillin' my time, With anything to keep the thought of you from my mind, I'm doin' fine, I plan to keep it that way, You can call me if you find that you have something to say, And I'll tell you, I want you to know it's a little fucked up, That I'm stuck here waitin', at times debatin', Tellin' you that I've had it with you and your career, Me and the rest of the family here singing "Where'd you go?"
I miss you so, Seems like it's been forever, That you've been gone. Where'd you go? I miss you so, Seems like it's been forever, That you've been gone, Please come back home...
I want you to know it's a little fucked up, That I'm stuck here waitin', no longer debatin', Tired of sittin' and hatin' and makin' these excuses, For why you're not around, and feeling so useless, It seems one thing has been true all along, You don't really know what you've got 'til it's gone, I guess I've had it with you and your career, When you come back I won't be here and you can sing it...
Where'd you go? I miss you so, Seems like it's been forever, That you've been gone. Where'd you go? I miss you so, Seems like it's been forever, That you've been gone,
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Tuesday, August 19, 2008
had a old boys meet last nite, and wow, we havent met for like 3 years? my 2 buds C and D where so, so different! C was a rich guy gone broke, back then, his arrogance was ..... unexplainable and now, he's so down to earth, having a normal job, trying to settle down etc.... C was someone i looked up to and wanted to be, rich, successful, without the arrogance part, but part of me too wanted to be like D, D on the other hand had a pretty rough life, i remember the days when he was so broke and kept borrowing money to go out with his girlfriend, and i used to tell him that he couldnt manage between friends and a R/S, it seems that he really loved his gf, and spent most of the time with her. they were really close and everyone was realli envious, however, when i met him yesterday, i jokingly asked, hey where's ur girl, and his response was, how i know? from someone who was so loving and paid so much attention to his partner, someone kind and humble, became someone i felt so disgusted with, after talking more with each other, i realize that he "made it big", with age and his current salary, no wonder he's so boastful. He never did realize that his words, actions, character changed, he still thinks that he's somehow normal, when probed further, he said that "aiya, my gf sticks to me now, no need to chase already, gotten already, she's like a Fu*k toy to me now. i cant be bothered. oh my god.. i couldnt believe my ears. seriously for all those friends who wasnt there yesterday who knew D, they would prob die of shock! D was someone who will never say such things. its amazing on how a small success in finances and social status totally change some people. back then, he was loving and both gf and him were saving hard, striving, him having a broken family and a father who is always wanting to take money from him and the gf had to support this "need" or he will get beaten by the father is now a "toy" to him. i realize its when people get higher pay, higher status and they unknowingly neglect their partner, the partner that has worked hard and saved with them, suffered together, splitted the pay slip to ensure that both had enough for the month, i really sympathize with the girl. back then, they did everything together, so loving etc, but now, he leaves her alone and she's always trying to get some attention. their situation at home would be him messing ard with some form of electronic gadgets, and she being lonely in the room and having nothing to do... he has this hobby which we all guys found weird, nature walks is wad we call it, he enjoys site seeing at places with greenery or beaches, or waterfalls/botanic gardens etc... and the only time they ever spend together nowadays is at these places where he just stands there and stares at trees etc, and she stands ard, not enjoying it, getting bitten by mosquitoes and hardly even get to talk to him.... and wow, he even got the cheek to say such things, but 1 thing we both notice was the aura was different, he turned very arrogant and everything was about dollars and cents. i couldnt believe such a drastic change happen in like 3 years. well, to every success story of a guy, lies a suffering women at the back. sad, lonely, neglected..... oh well, i hope it doesnt happen to me... gtg ! blogging off...
brakes applied at |8/19/2008 07:23:00 PM|
was studying at unsw asia till it closed down, was in a marketing programme, and i couldnt find a a better way of describing marketing till i saw an email which is pasted below.. enjoy
What is marketing? 1. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: ' I am very rich. Marry me!' - That's Direct Marketing 2. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her and pointing at you says: 'He's very rich. Marry him.' - That's Advertising 3. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The next day, you call and say: ' Hi, I'm very rich. Marry me' - That's Telemarketing 4. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. You get up and straighten your tie, you walk up to her and pour her a drink, you open the door (of the car) for her, pick up her bag after she drops it, offer her ride and then say: 'By the way, I'm rich. Will you 'Marry Me?' - That's Public Relations 5. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. She walks up to you and says: 'You are very rich! Can you marry me?' - That's Brand Recognition 6. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: 'I am very rich. Marry me!' She gives you a nice hard slap on your face. - That's Customer feedback 7. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: 'I am very rich. Marry me!' And she introduces you to her husband. - That's demand and supply gap 8. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say anything, another person come and tell her: 'I'm rich. Will you marry me?' and she goes with him - That's competition eating into your market share 9. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say: 'I'm rich, Marry me!' your wife arrives. - That's restriction for entering new markets
brakes applied at |8/19/2008 02:14:00 AM|
Saturday, August 16, 2008
took this off from a bike forum.... :"
If her parents forbid you to ride a bike :-
1. Visit them one day WITHOUT your girlfriend's knowledge(or in this case, your Stead)
2. Buy them lots of tonic and seafood (IMPORTANT)
3. Be polite. Just tell them you're visiting them based on goodwill.
4. Place your helmet beside you, prominently that it catches their attention.
5. After a few minutes of warm and lovely fillial exchanges, get down to business
6. They will again, lecture you on the dangers of riding. Here, with a very polite voice and a sincere smile, tell them this :-
6a. "Auntie, Uncle. I will heed your advice. The problem seemed to be my bike but not about me riding. Riding is my hobby. If I can't ride a bike, I think I am better off riding your daughter. It's safer anyways.. sighh"
Then cover your mouth cutely and point towards the seafood and tonics..and say...
"I think I need that one a lot a lot hihihihihihihihiiihi!!!!"
p.s : Respect the elders. Do not be rude. Be polite."
brakes applied at |8/16/2008 10:23:00 PM|
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
the F1 route...
brakes applied at |7/22/2008 09:41:00 PM|
Thursday, July 17, 2008
kung fu panda anyone??? Master Oogway....
brakes applied at |7/17/2008 09:36:00 PM|
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
LOSE WEIGHT WITH SEX......(took this from a forum) It has been known for many years that sex is good exercise, but until now nobody had made a scientific study of the caloric content of different sexual activities. Now, after 'original and proprietary' research, the scientific community is proud to present the results.
REMOVING HER CLOTHES: With her consent.................................12 Calories Without her consent...........................2,187 Calories
OPENING HER BRA: With both hands.................................. 8 Calories With one hand....................................12 Calories With your teeth.................................485 Calories
PUTTING ON A CONDOM: With an erection..................................6 Calories Without an erection...........................3,315 Calories
POST ORGASM: Lying in bed hugging.............................18 Calories Getting up immediately...........................36 Calories Explaining why you got out of bed immediately...1 ,816 Calories
GETTING A SECOND ERECTION: If you are: 20-29 years......................................36 Calories 30-39 years......................................80 Calories 40-49 years..................... ................124 Calories 50-59 years...................................1,972 Calories 60-69 years...................................7,916 Calories 70 and over........................Results are still pending
DRESSING AFTERWARDS Calmly...........................................32 Calories In a hurry.......................................98 Calories With her father knocking at the door..........5,218 Calories With your wife knocking at the door..........13,521 Calories
brakes applied at |7/16/2008 11:09:00 PM|
Read this recently..... A man eats two eggs each morning for breakfast. When he goes to the > grocery store he pays 60 cents a dozen. Since a dozen eggs won't last > a week he normally buys two dozens at a time. One day while buying > eggs he notices that the price has risen to 72 cents. The next time he > buys groceries, eggs are 76 cents a dozen. > > When asked to explain the price of eggs the store owner says, 'The > price has gone up and I have to raise my price accordingly'. This > store buys 100 dozen eggs a day. He checked around for a better price > and all the distributors have raised their prices. The distributors > have begun to buy from the huge egg farms. The small egg farms have > been driven out of business. The huge egg farms sell 100,000 dozen > eggs a day to distributors. > With no competition, they can set the price as they see fit. The > distributors then have to raise their prices to the grocery stores. > And on and on and on. > > As the man kept buying eggs the price kept going up. He saw the big > egg trucks delivering 100 dozen eggs each day. Nothing changed there. > He checked out the huge egg farms and found they were selling 100,000 > dozen eggs to the distributors daily. Nothing had changed but the price of eggs. > > Then week before Thanksgiving the price of eggs shot up to $1.00 a dozen. > Again he asked the grocery owner why and was told, 'Cakes and baking > for the holiday'. The huge egg farmers know there will be a lot of > baking going on and more eggs will be used. Hence, the price of eggs > goes up. Expect the same thing at Christmas and other times when > family cooking, baking happen. > > This pattern continues until the price of eggs is 2.00 a dozen. The > man says, ' There must be something we can do about the price of > eggs'. He starts talking to all the people in his town and they decide > to stop buying eggs. This didn't work because everyone needed eggs. > > Finally, the man suggested only buying what you need. He ate 2 eggs a day. > On the way home from work he would stop at the grocery and buy two eggs. > Everyone in town started buying 2 or 3 eggs a day. > > The grocery store owner began complaining that he had too many eggs in > his cooler. He told the distributor that he didn't need any eggs. > Maybe wouldn't need any all week. The distributor had eggs piling up > at his warehouse. He told the huge egg farms that he didn't have any > room for eggs would not need any for at least two weeks. > > At the egg farm, the chickens just kept on laying eggs. To relieve the > pressure, the huge egg farm told the distributor that they could buy > the eggs at a lower price. The distributor said, ' I don't have the > room for the eggs even if they were free'. > > The distributor told the grocery store owner that he would lower the > price of the eggs if the store would start buying again. The grocery > store owner said, 'I don't have room for more eggs. The customers are > only buying 2 or > 3 eggs at a time. Now if you were to drop the price of eggs back down > to the original price, the customers would start buying by the dozen again'. > > The distributors sent that proposal to the huge egg farmers but the > egg farmers liked the price they were getting for their eggs but, > those chickens just kept on laying. Finally, the egg farmers lowered > the price of their eggs. But only a few cents. The customers still > bought 2 or 3 eggs at a time. They said, 'when the price of eggs gets > down to where it was before, we will start buying by the dozen.' > > Slowly the price of eggs started dropping. The distributors had to > slash their prices to make room for the eggs coming from the egg > farmers. The egg farmers cut their prices because the distributors > wouldn't buy at a higher price than they were selling eggs for. > Anyway, they had full warehouses and wouldn't need eggs for quite a > while. And those chickens kept on laying. > Eventually, the egg farmers cut their prices because they were > throwing away eggs they couldn't sell. > > The distributors started buying again because the eggs were priced to > where the stores could afford to sell them at the lower price. And the > customers starting buying by the dozen again. > > Now, transpose this analogy to the gasoline industry. What if everyone > only bought $10.00 worth of gas each time they pulled to the pump? The > dealer's tanks would stay semi full all the time. The dealers wouldn't > have room for the gas coming from the huge tank farms. The tank farms > wouldn't have room for the gas coming from the refining plants. And > the refining plants wouldn't have room for the oil being off loaded > from the huge tankers coming from the oil fiends. > > Just $10.00 each time you buy gas. Don't fill it up. You may have to > stop for gas twice a week but, the price should come down. Think about it. > > As an added note...When I buy $10.00 worth of gas that leaves my tank > a little under quarter full. The way prices are jumping around, you > can buy gas for $2.65 a gallon and then the next morning it can be > $2.15. If you have your tank full of $2.65 gas you don't have room for the $2.15 gas. > > You might not understand the economics of only buying two eggs at a > time but, you can't buy cheaper gas if your tank is full of the high > priced stuff. Also, don't buy anything else at the gas station; don't > give the many more of your hard earned money than what you spend on > gas, until the prices comedown.' Just think of this concept for a while.
brakes applied at |7/16/2008 11:07:00 PM|
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
savage garden....... listening to this song in the car seems.... wrong... yet it felt comforting, like the car is kinda sing it out to u.... to add.... god, its been ages since i heard savage garden! i gotta get home quickly and find my cd!
When you feel all alone And the world has turned its back on you Give me a moment please to tame your wild wild heart I know you feel like the walls are closing in on you Its hard to find relief and people can be so cold When darkness is upon your door and you feel like you cant take anymore
Let me be the one you call If you jump Ill break your fall Lift you up and fly away with you into the night If you need to fall apart I can mend a broken heart If you need to crash then crash and burn Youre not alone
When you feel all alone And a loyal friend is hard to find Youre caught in a one way street With the monsters in your head When hopes and dreams are far away and You feel like you cant face the day
Let me be the one you call If you jump Ill break your fall Lift you up and fly away with you into the night If you need to fall apart I can mend a broken heart If you need to crash then crash and burn Youre not alone
And there has always been heartache and pain And when its over youll breathe again Youll breath again
When you feel all alone And the world has turned its back on you Give me a moment please To tame your wild wild heart
Let me be the one you call If you jump Ill break your fall Lift you up and fly away with you into the night If you need to fall apart I can mend a broken heart If you need to crash then crash and burn Youre not alone
brakes applied at |6/18/2008 11:03:00 PM|
Sunday, June 15, 2008
the 2 white donut with black strips on the right side of the box... simply rocks... thank you god... thank you donut&donut..
brakes applied at |6/15/2008 11:54:00 PM|
what are arcades "pick the stuff toy" machinese teaching kids now a days? :D
brakes applied at |6/15/2008 11:41:00 PM|
daddy and mummy off to dinner....
hmmm, really wierd to see my car beign driven by someone else...
brakes applied at |6/15/2008 11:31:00 PM|
This is chick, buddha's only precious friend and companion at home(or in his room).... Buddha's computer was moved out of his room...... and buddha just bought a wireless DLINK cam for 999 sgd.... but left with no computer.... poor buddha...
brakes applied at |6/15/2008 11:14:00 PM|
great spore sales..... thanks mum.... ouch!
brakes applied at |6/15/2008 11:08:00 PM|
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
refer to earlier post... the time machine exposed...
brakes applied at |6/03/2008 11:32:00 PM|
got the bible on the left.... manga bible, new + old testi all in.... shop at leisure park
brakes applied at |6/03/2008 11:03:00 PM|
click to enlarge..... a "sexy sales" at marina square.... hehe :P
brakes applied at |6/03/2008 10:53:00 PM|
Sunday, June 1, 2008
the super big meal at seoul garden... haven had such a bloating meal.... thanks to the root beer float, or should i say, ice cream syrup?
my bro.... buay tahan already... hahahahhaha
ok... here's a poster at the cinema, which all my friends agree it looks like me.... :D
brakes applied at |6/01/2008 08:01:00 PM|
took this photo in my fren's car... now thats what i deem beautiful...
brakes applied at |6/01/2008 07:57:00 PM|
Thursday, May 29, 2008
went pass this yesterday, had to get a shot of it..... wad ever it is....... time machine? car? bomb?, Hot hair balloon? what what? haha...
brakes applied at |5/29/2008 06:05:00 PM|
one of my favorite biscuits since young
brakes applied at |5/29/2008 05:55:00 PM|
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
found an old photo of mighel's evo, probably a year back?.... the only one mixed in a whole bunch of scoobys.... he attended an scs meetup.... hehe
brakes applied at |5/28/2008 11:02:00 PM|
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
haven had this for a long time!
brakes applied at |5/27/2008 07:44:00 PM|
Monday, April 28, 2008
here's a pic i took at bugis...... a whole line of guys waiting outside the shops for their gfs to shop... lol... poor guys.... this is a sexist world...
brakes applied at |4/28/2008 06:34:00 PM|
after waking at 6.30 to go on a "GREEN" trip to malaysia till 8pm, came back, skipped the usual kallang sprint, and went out with friends... friends... that totally cheer my lousy day up... haha, had tons of mosquito bites and sweated like there's no tomorrow, but looking at some friends..... kenneth acting real funny while smoking the mango water and jj looking all stoned( i guess it was from the lack of slp) but as we left in chris's car, he saw something and got totally excited... then i guess it may be the apple water thats clouding his mind... seeing this guys do funny things really sometimes cheer u up from within.... whats life when these dear frens are not there to cheer u up when ur down?
brakes applied at |4/28/2008 06:16:00 PM|
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
ah.... sick!! i hit the high of 40.3 degrees.... lau sai + high fever...
doctor said i cant eat any solid food... so here i am sucking loli with ice on my head
getting sponged with 3 towels and ice
brakes applied at |4/16/2008 11:17:00 PM|
Sunday, April 13, 2008
we went to hougang to eat... bcuz, someone wanted to empty their petrol tank so that can pump full tank v power , cuz over weekend 7-11pm there was a promotion at shell, vpower for the price of 98... lol! so drove all the way to hougang, had some pretty good western food, and k was so busy on the phone(business call) that chris had to feed him,the night started with a really fun time at dinner and proceeded on to kallang for bowling, we were behaving so childishly, calling each other girls name, messing with our 1st alphabet of our names and typing it into the screen,its really a long time since we had
this much fun, as in , it was real childish fun, and ... dumb names like "chaoahgua"(chris), mamasan(mark) linaohia(me), kennina/kennineh(kenneth) all started coming out... i never laughed so hard for god knows how long, real stress buster.. felt so alive.... quite alot of pics were taken,lazy to upload...
brakes applied at |4/13/2008 06:55:00 PM|
attended bike aisa even at expo, 13/04/08 went to john little sales 2 doors away to get a new pillow as well.. mine's like the fish filter all coming out already....
stunts held in expo,
brakes applied at |4/13/2008 06:16:00 PM|
1st lambo i saw with a spoiler in sg...
brakes applied at |4/13/2008 06:10:00 PM|
Thursday, April 10, 2008
ahhh... why did they stop production for this? its damn nice!!!
brakes applied at |4/10/2008 07:12:00 PM|
will be "resigning" from school soon,eugene called to ask me to re think this decision, thanks bro, i do understand that u care, but i have more or less decided to leave, sorry to disappoint, but i may make a come back depending on time, and financial abilities, and the will if it ever comes back.... this feeling is depressing, was having breakfast this morning and the whole thing abt religion came back to me..... a story i heard: cancer patient was so wanting to live, he wanted to try and medicine that may potentially cure him, and bcuz of this, the doctor gave him this pill,which was a new testing drug in America, after taking it, within 2 weeks,the cancer was gone, he was healthy for 2 mths, till he found that this particular drug( cant remember the name) was publish on the news papers and was said that it was a failed project, his cancer came back almost immediately, and this same doctor, knowing this patient's mentality well, decided to give him a new pill that consisted of sugar in a capsule and told the patient that it was the newly developed medicine from the last failed one, this was sure to work. few weeks later, he was cured... and lived on , well and happy, till one day, he found out that there was no such "part 2" of the medicine, his cancer immediately came back and he died shortly. placebo effect....coming back to this, religion, my past,i held on to religion bcuz it was my support , my belief system, prayed and believed that it will help me and it really did help heal those scars,immune system became better, mind over body, but realized that all this was just a "system" that was in built in the human's mind.... the mind is a powerful living organism, have always believed in fighting for your wants and needs but always knowing that when lost, u can turn to god, but in Christianity as far as i know, its leaving everything to god, yet there's a phrase, god helps those who help themselves. humans need a religion or something or anything to believe in as support, but nowadays i am physically seeing "good" obsessions , like yesterday at parkway, went to get some groceries and saw this christian shop which had christian bingo game, holy poly(monopoly) and chirstwords puzzle... cups, ties, books, pens, sweets ,everything christian... its... i dunno, no comments, sometimes people stubbornly believe in a support system,be it religion or an item( e.g. money) , obsessions comes about and the person believing becomes so absorbed in that belief, that , they no longer realise that people around them thinks that they are mad and ppl are getting scared( seeing this obsession).i think that no matter what,each individual human should have the rights to choose their religion or their beliefs(what ever they believe in, to make them feel better), sometimes, i dont understand why does every conversation that blows up has the bible or something to do with religion brought in? what does decisions that i have to make at the end of the day has anything to do with god?seek god for solutions, i need solutions now, not leave it up to god,schools have closing dates..... and being rebellious by nature, the more u tell me abt a religion which i have already have lesser or almost no faith in, the more it pushes me away......have no idea why this issue came into my head this morning, could be because of the guilt of leaving sch?
brakes applied at |4/10/2008 06:09:00 PM|
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
the aftermath of no universities, job security, today, there's no longer such thing as securities, no matter how close u are to ur boss or suck up etc, now even national service don offer contracts till 55 i think, they renew contracts base on performance. now a days in life, everything seems to be performance based, no longer having high salary but based on commission, everything now relies on everything else and in todays society, one company relies on another to survive, the buy sell issue. One thing in life i notice is that as a student(in sec sch), i feel that this teacher has no longer any compassion or what it takes to handle the students because they have been teachers for too long, their monotony of teaching, marking the scripts and getting paid got to these teachers, and these teachers forgot what was it like to be a student.(like parents forgot how they feel when they were kids). Through growing, parents in turn realized how precious their kids are and unknowlingly become over protective/sensitive over their young/kids that it pushes them to a corner. Alike, students, kids and salary man all are afarid of leaders and bosses all get up to where they are with pain, blood sweat, the coldness the loneliness, the climb up the ladder, and when u get there, u will remember how u got there, but sooner or later, u would be too busy to notice how u got there, feelings of others and take for granted ppl ard you....its time when climbing the ladder when u neglect people around u , friends family, loved ones, the only thing u see is climbing the ladder and fail to understand how people around u feels. Someone once told me, the mind is stronger then the body,the mind wills everything, the body may fail and yet if the mind refuses to let it fail, it will still go on, though there's a limit, the mind relies on emotions, things like words of encouragement, encouragement does wonders, it brings up your confidence, may even give a false sense of hope,false sense of hope may do your performance a favor and benefit you at the end of the day. although getting scolded, getting accused by your superior or your "in charge" sometimes wakes you up,yet it gets you irritated as well, worst still, like recently experienced getting accused, i cant believe that we have been friends for a few long years and yet u accuse me of such petty stuff.... why would i even borrow ur your ipod without permission when i don even need one? i drive, i listen to my lousy radio in the car to work and back, at home, i have a mini hi fi set and a laptop with good speakers... why on earth i need an i pod? its just not logical, get ur facts right before u accuse people, u know urself... and back to my bitching. Sometimes, life comes to a standstill, like a bungee , getting suspended in air flying/bouncing up and down, u never know whats going to happen to u, u never know the future, everything seems uncertain, somethings looks good and some looks bad, but everyone goes through this stage in life, whether u can climb the corporate ladder successfully or not, although there are some exceptions where, parents gave their children no future, or brought them up in this way, yet at the same time there are those fortunate ones who lives forever with a golden spoon.... but life is such, comparing yourself will never end,accept the fact of who u are, where u belong, where u were born into(e.g. which country etc) ask yourself what u really want in life and how much are you willing to sacrifice for this end day goal and go for it, achieve it , clear ur mind and do your best... life is short, push it to the max do everything u wanna do quickly b4 u die, recently there was a movie out in the cinemas but i din manage to catch it cuz of my exam, the bucket list or something like that, saw 1 preview though, was abt 2 dying man or smthing doing a list of shit b4 they die... would like to catch that, a real fantasy, childish yet sometimes it does depressed people like me good, helps me to look forward to doing/accomplishing some stuff before i die....
brakes applied at |4/09/2008 10:24:00 PM|
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Your positive traits:
You're red hot passion makes anyone you date feel extremely wanted Loyalty, to the point of doing anything to protect your lover You are mysterious and charismatic - and you easily draw people in
Your negative traits:
You tend to be paranoid and think that the worst is going on with your lover You turn cold and mean at the first sign of conflict in relationship You sometimes become obsessed with dates - so much so that you develop jealousy early on
Your ideal partner:
Someone who will take the time to win you over. Not an easy task! Is able to keep up with your carnal appetite... lots of stamina needed. Reassures you of their love and loyalty on a daily basis.
Your dating style:
Intense. You prefer to stay in with take out and conversation - so that no one else is distracting you and your date.
Your seduction style:
Hot. New partners have trouble believing that your libido is for real. You have incredible sexual intuition - you always know what your lover craves A bit bossy. You know what you want, and you certainly aren't afraid to ask for it.
Tips for the future:
Don't be so secretive with your love - they want you the way you are Let go of your jealousy. Your partner has chosen *you* Spend more time alone, doing things you love. It will help you be less obsessive.
found this absoulutely nice wallpaper online..... for my big ass office computer screen... woot!!
brakes applied at |4/07/2008 11:32:00 PM|
an email i recieve.... a good way to kill stress related 50+ emails in the morning.... i love these kids!! KIDS IN CHURCH > > 3-year-old Reese: > > "Our Father, Who does art in heaven, > > Harold is His name. > > Amen." > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > A little boy was overheard praying: > > "Lord, if you can't make me a better boy, don't worry about it. > > I'm having a real good time like I am." > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > After the christening of his baby brother in church, > > Jason sobbed all the way home in the back seat of the car. > > His father asked him three times what was wrong. > > Finally, the boy replied, > > "That preacher said he wanted us brought up in a Christian home, > > and I wanted to stay with you guys." > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > One particular four-year-old prayed, > > "And forgive us our trash baskets > > as we forgive those who put trash in our baskets." > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > A Sunday school teacher asked her children as they > > were on the way to church service, > > "And why is it necessary to be quiet in church?" > > One bright little girl replied, > > "Because people are sleeping." > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > A mother was preparing pancakes for her sons, Kevin 5, and Ryan 3. > > The boys began to argue over who would get the first pancake. > > Their mother saw the opportunity for a moral lesson. > > "If Jesus were sitting here, He would say, > > 'Let my brother have the first pancake, I can wait.' > > Kevin turned to his younger brother and said, > > "Ryan, you be Jesus!" > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > A father was at the beach with his children > > when the four-year-old son ran up to him, > > grabbed his hand, and led him to the shore > > where a seagull lay dead in the sand. > > "Daddy, what happened to him?" the son asked. > > "He died and went to Heaven," the Dad replied. > > The boy thought a moment and then said, > > "Did God throw him back down?" > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > A wife invited some people to dinner. > > At the table, she turned to their six-year-old daughter and said, > > "Would you like to say the blessing?" > > "I wouldn't know what to say," the girl replied. > > "Just say what you hear Mommy say," the wife answered. > > The daughter bowed her head and said, > > "Lord, why on earth did I invite all these people to dinner?"
brakes applied at |4/07/2008 06:13:00 PM|
yesterday.. the dumbest thing happen, my exam.... calculator was taken from me... illegal 15 year old calculator... afarid that it could store memory... so i wrote a 2 page complain on how this modern society sucked... right after my exam... called jj, was feeling damn down with no one in mind... and wow... an arranged dinner... all those funny jokes made, the line up of 6 cars for a evening photo shoot for team *.*. .... really thankful to have u crazy mad ass tatooed pedal flooring buddies... especially roy, incharge of the picture editing, james, for the camera, zack with the freaking over size spanners to pose with, tim with his shi nai( japanese kendo stuff) with some cosplay posing beside my animated car.... chrissy(chris) and big ben for tackling me down on the floor with sand all over my mouth and now my eye's brusing.... thanks everyone!!! and for chris and ben.. see u at the boxing gym this sunday afternoon.. i get my revenge there... no mood to struggle today!!! and of course... aunty mui , for the superb chili crab.. thanks bros....for all the mood cheering today, i know u guys had an already packed schedule ahead for the upcoming muay thai tournaments , but took time off to eat fatty food with me... sorry i cant make it to the tournaments cuz will be overseas during that period.. but one things for sure, we are a team, no matter how far a distance, hehe... if i run into troiuble overseas, will sms u all for help!! and its back to the work week after a supposedly long week end( exam week ) ..... quick send me the photos, i wanna print and stick on my wall!!
brakes applied at |4/07/2008 06:10:00 PM|
Sunday, April 6, 2008
hmmmm, i shall start with what's really going on.... i decided to quit university for the time being, and it aches my heart to see my parents in distress wondering why all of a sudden i decided to quit? reasons, i remain personally( friends, pls do not ask/respect my privacy) and even knowing that my parents always wanted to go to university and did not have a chance, and being the eldest in the family, i am given a chance to go to uni, and half way through , i decided to give it up for a while, will get a study loan next year to carry on, mum's like wanting me to go for other courses, as long as i go back to sch i guess... i felt really guilty and been feeling very down, walking into the exam halls and out... disappointing my group mates Mr E and Miss B ....then today i got another surpirse... a phone call to ask me out for dinner with a plan than brings both of us to a 2day 1 night get away..... she decided to get a small camera to flim down our 2days 1 nite get away thats occuring just after tomorrow's exam.... a totally refreshing sat and sunday......
brakes applied at |4/06/2008 07:30:00 AM|
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Hi people, restarted my 2year long blog worth of photos....the blog have been missing in action for quite a long time, cuz...... was busy with my work and studies....plus my K800i is spoilt and my new hp( htc ) cant take photos for nuts..... i decided to stop my university for a while and concentrate on working.... hmmm, and... this blog pictures will be taken from a new camera i recieve yesterday (05/04/08) from my gf..... now i think will have more time to blog.. hehe
Went to BKS amk to do my wife's car, so headed out to eat, found a bus stop, waited.... waited... figured that the bus loops to somewhere else instead of the interchange.... ended up in a cabby.. lol
On to a new life ahead :)
do funny things really sometimes cheer u up from within.... whats life when these dear frens are not there to cheer u up when ur down?
we went to hougang to eat... bcuz, someone wanted to empty their petrol tank so that can pump full tank v power , cuz over weekend 7-11pm there was a promotion at shell, vpower for the price of 98... lol! so drove all the way to hougang, had some pretty good western food, and k was so busy on the phone(business call) that chris had to feed him,the night started with a really fun time at dinner and proceeded on to kallang for bowling, we were behaving so childishly, calling each other girls name, messing with our 1st alphabet of our names and typing it into the screen,its really a long time since we had
this much fun, as in , it was real childish fun, and ... dumb names like "chaoahgua"(chris), mamasan(mark) linaohia(me), kennina/kennineh(kenneth) all started coming out... i never laughed so hard for god knows how long, real stress buster.. felt so alive.... quite alot of pics were taken,lazy to upload...
